What about things like kegels/squeezing?

Mouths are probably pretty different right? More tongue movement, unless you are facefucking.

If you’ve ever participated in something like a train - can you feel the difference between a vagina that has already been fucked?

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    2 hours ago

    I can tell the difference. Ass feels tighter and makzs me cum quicker.

    I’ll sometimes use a big(ger thn me) dildo on my wife, and if I fuck her after I can feel how much the toy stretched her out.

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    6 hours ago

    guy asses and girl asses do feel different inside! the prostate is really noticable on prostate-havers and it provides a spot with some resistance / pushback but the equivalent location on pussy-havers is a soft spot that you can push through

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    7 hours ago

    Wayne from Letterkenny puts it best:

    that whereas vagina sex provides stimulation of the entire penis, like a sausage inside a burrito, but bum sex provides stimulation only from like… Well, like the rim of the butt hole rather than inside the butt hole also.

    So, what you’re sayings is, it’s less like going inside this Long John Silvers here, and more like going inside this honey cruller here.

    Correct. It’s less like going inside this loaf of bread… And more like going inside this bagel.

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    Yes. I don’t feel anything in anal unless I do some very specific motions. Vaginal and oral is chill.

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    2 days ago

    Ass most of the squeeze is around the entrance.

    Pussy it’s more evenly distributed.

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    Most definitely. Between anal and vaginal, vaginal feels way better. It’s made for it. It’s got more grip in more surface area. Not that anal is awful. It’s better than a mouth, IMO. Idk if that’s just a tactile thing for me, or if I’ve just never had a good BJ. But no body has even gotten close to getting me off with oral.

    I’ve had sloppy seconds and other than the fact there’s someone else’s cum in them, there’s not much difference between a fucked or unfucked pussy or ass.

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      2 days ago

      I’m kinda reassured with how common it is to not cum from/be into oral. I have TMJ so I don’t really suck a lot of cocks. I get asked and like it sometimes, but it hurts after a bit :(

      Also appreciate that the experience is probably the same after I’ve been used, always been worried that the last guy in a train is missing out. I guess it is a muscle, so maybe working it out makes it tighter long term.

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    2 days ago

    Yes, ass is tighter around the opening. Depending on how strong the muscles are, you can feel squeezing. Ass squeezing is more noticeable than vagina squeezing ime.

    Mouths are very different.

    No real difference in a vagina that’s already been fucked unless it’s getting drier from all the friction but just use lube and it’s fine. An ass that’s already been fucked isn’t quite as tight, but that’s a good thing because you want the ass to be a bit more relaxed and the start is a bit of work to make sure the other person is relaxed enough so you don’t hurt them.

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    2 days ago

    Only speaking from personal experience obviously. Ass and vagina - yes, vastly different. Vagina is like a really wet warm tunnel with pretty even pressure throughout. Ass has a really tight opening and then less so further in. As for kegels, oh boy yes can you feel the pressure differences. Like squeezing a fist.

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    2 days ago

    Not original to me.

    Vaginal sex is like riding in a limousine. Smooth, and comfortable

    Oral sex is like riding in a sports car. Wild and exciting.

    Anal sex is like riding a Jeep down along an unpaved mountain road.

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    Sure, and it’s easy to tell the difference usually. Mouth, pussy, ass, they’re just built different.

    Now, an ass that’s been well used, if you’re wearing a condom, could probably be harder to tell from a warmed up pussy.

    And yes, you can usually tell if a pussy has already been well fucked. The muscles tend to relax after the first few. If anyone ahead of you was allowed to come inside, it’s definitely more slippery. You might not notice as much if you’re wearing a condom, but if you pay attention you can tell the difference between semen and pussy juice even through a condom.

    I rarely shared a woman with other men where I was willing to not use a condom, but you can absolutely tell the difference then, without question. I’ve been the first one in, and gone later in the train, and it is unmistakable, even without anyone coming inside.

    With enough men, it may not be pleasant though. A lot of women will stop being able to lubricate on their own, and if they don’t want artificial lube, it can get into the kind of pain that isn’t fun trying to go at it the way is usually wanted in a situation like that. Most women I encountered that wanted a gang bang wanted it to be hard, forceful. A dry pussy hurts a bit to get into and can hurt a lot to fuck. Trying to fuck hard, and even with a love of pain, it can be too much.

    So, if you’re prone to running out of your own juices, plan ahead if you’re taking more than two or three in a row. Have lube handy, or be prepared to be raw by the end of things.

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      1 day ago

      Does it still feel good at the end of a the train? Like is it a bad different or a neutral difference? Service is my kink, so I want to ensure that guys have the best experience. The degradation of that “hot dog down a hallway” description is pretty fun, but I want to make sure that I still have a nice grip.

      Lubrication is a special talent of mine. I haven’t really run out except for when I setup 30ish guys for my birthday.

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        22 hours ago

        Sure, it feels fine. The whole idea that a pussy gets too relaxed to be felt is not going to apply to anyone with a normally functioning penis. There are issues that reduce sensitivity enough that a fully relaxed vagina might not provide enough stimulation to reach orgasm. And may not be felt to a significant degree through a condom when you have those issues.

        But that’s what it is, relaxed muscles. You can get pounded for hours, and as long as you’re in decent health, and have done kegals, you should still be able to engage those muscles and grip just fine.

        As a fantasy thing though, it is absolutely possible for at least a few guys in the train to have trouble touching the walls of your exhausted and abused cunt. Even a horse cock might not do more than tickle the sides once you’ve been fucked into a hypnotic state. If those muscles are just too worn out to flex, it’s not going to feel like much compared to when they all got started.

        But, give you a few minutes, a bottle of water, and a slap on the ass, and you’ll be able to grip again.

  • FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.com
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    2 days ago

    A bum feels completely different to a vagina

    If you take your forefinger and thumb and grip a finger tightly, then move it back and forth, that’s a bum

    Now do the same with a whole-handed grip

    Squeezing is different from woman to woman. I’ve had some crazy tight partners (not helped by my dick, admittedly) and partners who I could simultaneously fist and fuck in their pussy

    They all felt good. If anything, the very tight partners were a problem because things were either uncomfortable for me, for them (although I know a few masochists who love it) or both

    Mouths are a whole other ball-game

    I had a partner who had boasted of her prowess, but she was awful. Very toothy and her enthusiasm didn’t make up for poor technique

    I’ve also had others who damned near sucked the soul out of my body

    My piercing is a problem too, it is usually comes out as soon as things get steamy, apart from the occasional PIV only session, and even then, it’s usually a bit too intense for us both if things go on for long

    I like switching things up during sex too, so it’s pretty common for my fiancée and I to enjoy a variety of things during a single session, so I will often be fucking her after fisting her

    It doesn’t really make any difference. What makes the difference is how aroused she is (pretty much an essential prerequisite for fisting!)

    I hope this helps!