I’ve been a single mom for a few years now after getting out of an abusive relationship with my 12 year old son’s biological father. I’m 27 now (Yes I had him at 15), I work 2 jobs, and I take care of my son. Even working 2 jobs, I’m still barely getting by, and sometimes I feel like a terrible mother since I can’t give my child the perfect life he deserves. On top of that, I always come home exhausted from work, and once I’m done making dinner for my kid, I feel beat. It’s like I have no time for myself, or even to just sit down and breathe. I have gotten some support from my parents when it comes to babysitting here and there. Financially I feel stuck, because I couldn’t get a college degree since I was taking care of my son at the time. I haven’t had much luck when it comes to applying to better paying jobs. Dating also feels impossible as a single mom, and I really don’t want to settle when it comes to finding a stepdad for my son. I’m just so exhausted.
Edit: Thank you all for the positivity/advice :)
For dating, you’re 27, your kid is 12. You’re entering a dating field where having a kid isnt a barrier as much. Guys in their 30s won’t care for the most part. Some because they’re noncommittal, so e because he’s a teen and a non-issue for him for the most part.
I’m sure having a partner will make life easier, as long as they’re not that non-committal type (but hey that can be fun too).
For work, idk what you do but you can build skills and a portfolio and get a good career going. It ain’t too late. Im a decade your senior and my career only kinda got started at like 29.
Building skills and a portfolio will require some you time, and you’re not gonna get that until you sort out the stress you’re feeling.
Is your area walkable? Do you get enough exercise? I’ve found when I’m in the throes of “holy shit my life is chaos” that making time to exercise makes a world of difference.
Even if that means walking to the convenience store instead of driving few times a week
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