I’m 37MTF, and haven’t had an actual orgasm in a…very long time. The last one I experienced was when I relapsed on coke, and it was amazing. Prior to that, I’d say it has been 10+ years since my last orgasm. I don’t plan on falling off again any time soon, so I don’t know what to do.

For a long time, I derived my pleasure from satisfying whichever random guy I was having an encounter with. This worked for so many years, but I’ve grown tired of it now.

I think it is the HRT I am on that has extinguished my ability to cum. I won’t stop taking it, but I want to feel it again—I’ve forgotten.

Receiving oral does nothing for me, being penetrated is nice, but I’m over it.

What suggestions might you have? What can I do? Or do I need to try to learn to enjoy it again? If so, how?

      • jet@hackertalks.com
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        Sexual function is the early warning sign of metabolic health, eventually bad metabolism leads to diabetes

        You can get a home glucose meter and check, or a continuous glucose monitor and see your blood sugar in real time

        If you have your last lipid panel you can look at the ratio of tg/HDL to see your insulin sensitivity, less then 2 is ok, less then 1 is great.

          • jet@hackertalks.com
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            1 day ago

            You probably don’t have diabetes, it takes years and years to build up. Just check on your insulin sensitivity, hba1c, tg/hdl - what have you. Any improvements you can make will improve your sexual functions.