I’m 37MTF, and haven’t had an actual orgasm in a…very long time. The last one I experienced was when I relapsed on coke, and it was amazing. Prior to that, I’d say it has been 10+ years since my last orgasm. I don’t plan on falling off again any time soon, so I don’t know what to do.

For a long time, I derived my pleasure from satisfying whichever random guy I was having an encounter with. This worked for so many years, but I’ve grown tired of it now.

I think it is the HRT I am on that has extinguished my ability to cum. I won’t stop taking it, but I want to feel it again—I’ve forgotten.

Receiving oral does nothing for me, being penetrated is nice, but I’m over it.

What suggestions might you have? What can I do? Or do I need to try to learn to enjoy it again? If so, how?

  • Damaskox@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    6 hours ago

    Not sure what you mean by temps and materials?

    Ice or hot candle wax comes first to my mind.
    Leather and latex comes first to my mind about materials.

    …only by myself using porn and a vibrator.

    So I’ll assume that they have tried a vibrator on you.