I’m 37MTF, and haven’t had an actual orgasm in a…very long time. The last one I experienced was when I relapsed on coke, and it was amazing. Prior to that, I’d say it has been 10+ years since my last orgasm. I don’t plan on falling off again any time soon, so I don’t know what to do.

For a long time, I derived my pleasure from satisfying whichever random guy I was having an encounter with. This worked for so many years, but I’ve grown tired of it now.

I think it is the HRT I am on that has extinguished my ability to cum. I won’t stop taking it, but I want to feel it again—I’ve forgotten.

Receiving oral does nothing for me, being penetrated is nice, but I’m over it.

What suggestions might you have? What can I do? Or do I need to try to learn to enjoy it again? If so, how?

  • IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    12 hours ago

    dumb question,

    but are you on antidepressants?

    if so talk to your doctor and you might want to consider changing them.

    either way, I wish you luck and success.

      • IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.worldEnglish
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        3 hours ago

        If that’s an issue, be open and talk your doctor. maybe he can suggest changing some things.

        it sucks that the piping isn’t working.

        telling the doctor you cant climax is not a big deal, and its his job to help you avoid and/or manage side effects.

        • JuicyJessIsFun@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
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          50 minutes ago

          Interesting. I’m really surprised how much stuff I had not thought of or considered. I’m glad I posted this question!