I’m 37MTF, and haven’t had an actual orgasm in a…very long time. The last one I experienced was when I relapsed on coke, and it was amazing. Prior to that, I’d say it has been 10+ years since my last orgasm. I don’t plan on falling off again any time soon, so I don’t know what to do.

For a long time, I derived my pleasure from satisfying whichever random guy I was having an encounter with. This worked for so many years, but I’ve grown tired of it now.

I think it is the HRT I am on that has extinguished my ability to cum. I won’t stop taking it, but I want to feel it again—I’ve forgotten.

Receiving oral does nothing for me, being penetrated is nice, but I’m over it.

What suggestions might you have? What can I do? Or do I need to try to learn to enjoy it again? If so, how?

  • JuicyJessIsFun@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
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    12 hours ago

    I am! I have bipolar 2, so I don’t know if I can reduce my meds. We just found something that seems to be helping me too.

    • TheDegenerates6964@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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      7 hours ago

      Might be somthing to check then. Some anti-depressants contains ‘norepinephrine’ or something similair. While it is a stress hormone it works a stabilising agent when in an anti-depressants. The biggest issue there, if this is the issue, is that it prevents the body to signal the final muscle relaxation that triggers an orgasm. So basically, you could have hours upon hours of build up but no release.