• Waffle@infosec.pub
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    3 days ago

    Well fellas, looks like I’m gay 🥵

    BTW if any of you look like this and are single hmu.

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    If being attracted to buff women makes you gay, then gender is not as simple as this twitter gremlin probably believes it to be. But they probably don’t want to think about that too much.

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    I don’t care if it’s gay or straight, it’s not attractive to me personally, so I just avoid it and move on. 🤷

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      The right attitude! I’ll never understand why anyone is bothered by a complete strangers appearance.

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      Pretty weird of you to not pass unsolicited judgement on the physical attractiveness of strangers. Do you ever worry that this sort of antisocial behaviour will see you ostracised from society?

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        It’s a post open for comment. In what world is that unsolicited?

        Lighten up

          • sprite0@sh.itjust.works
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            i honestly think sarcasm is dead (and should die) in this international world we are in because it isn’t something that all cultures participate in and leads to exactly this sort of misunderstanding over and over.

            I used to think (as someone who was quite sarcastic online) that if you needed the /s tag it just meant you weren’t very good at it, but when you are communicating with people who don’t have a background of experience with it you just look like an asshole!

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        Pro tip: before getting yourself pegged make sure to make it clear you want her to be gentle with you, so you don’t risk having to question your sexuality.

      • dandelion (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        right wing politics promotes rigid gender norms

        including that only men should be muscular

        so muscular women are masculine

        and men attracted to a masculine person are gay

        nevermind that these are the same people who want to rigidly define women by their gametes, chromosomes, or other biological characteristics (not how buff they are, or how masculine they present)

        or that these are the same people who came up with the idea that everyone is straight to begin with (“gay” being a sinful behavior, nobody being born gay)

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          Xitter told me dating someone with XXY chomosomes is 50% gay and just one X chomosome would be Schrodinger’s gay

          (/s for the tone deaf)

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    I’ve always thought that women who look like they can kick ass are hot AF.

    My awakening to that was Alias. I never actually watched the show itself, but I saw a clip from one particular episode that really got me going. At least I’m pretty sure it was Alias. But if you watched it, I’m pretty sure you know exactly the clip I’m talking about.

    Now I’m not really into actually having my ass kicked, but just the look of capability. Oooo weeee.

    • NotASharkInAManSuit@lemmy.world
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      Same. Did these people not play Street Fighter growing up? If Cammy waking the mighty tiger behind my fly is gay then I’ll see you at Pride.

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      I like women who look like they can take care of themselves, I find the damsel in distress stereotype annoying.

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    I literally am incapable of forming opinions about something without consulting manosphere chuds opinion about whether or not it is gay. is that gay?

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      Wait if you think she’s hot, does that make you gay, but that makes you straight. But if you’re straight and you think she’s hot then that makes you gay.

      It’s confusing.

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        Here’s a trick solve your confusion: if you could choose what’s in those pants, how long would it take you to make a decide: if you instantly know you want what’s in your own pants youre most likely gay, if you know instantly you want exactly what’s not in your own pants you’re most likely straight, if you need a moment before you know you’re likely not straight nor gay. All the other reasons you can think of aren’t about sexuality as in what gender do you like but are about sexuality as in what kind of person you want to be with. But it might also be a little more complicated than this.