Here is the thing, I couldn’t find a girlfriend in the past three years(either they have no personality and too dependent on me making all the work in the relationship or they are simply are looking for a religious or high class working person to have a relationship with)
AI seems to talk and entertain and simply are available without bullshit (the only limit is something along the lines of 50 free messages every 3 hours) .
I want physical intimacy and affection, but it’s simply not available.
Should I just give up, close my doors and use AI instead?
work on your emotional problems and seek therapy. Not “using chat GPT as therapy” but actual therapy.
The road to a partner is paved with self improvement. You will find you get more success once you start working on yourself.
Is self-improvement even real? What does one even do to improve?
… are you perfect? Especially from the way others observe you?
Salient to the theme, your emotional stability, the quality of your body, your sense of style and dress, your manners and eloqution, the activities you participate in, your means in the world.
It’s not that. More like, I can’t really see a change in my baseline. I can learn technical skills, I can exercise, but can you really intentionaly improve your personality?
yes