lionkoy5555@lemmy.world to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 2 months ago40 (or plus) y/o virgins, why are you still virgin?message-squaremessage-square8fedilinkarrow-up18arrow-down121
arrow-up1-13arrow-down1message-square40 (or plus) y/o virgins, why are you still virgin?lionkoy5555@lemmy.world to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 2 months agomessage-square8fedilink
minus-squareLuke@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up28·2 months agoAsking this question in this way (demanding an explanation) frames it so that people will instinctively feel defensive. There’s no shame in being a virgin. You aren’t entitled to an explanation from anyone about why.
Asking this question in this way (demanding an explanation) frames it so that people will instinctively feel defensive. There’s no shame in being a virgin. You aren’t entitled to an explanation from anyone about why.