Online pornography showing strangulation or suffocation is to be made illegal, as part of government plans to tackle violence against women and girls.

It follows a review which found depictions of choking were “rife” on mainstream porn sites and had helped normalise the act among young people.

Both the possession and publication of such material will be a criminal offence, under amendments to the Crime and Policing Bill currently going through Parliament.

  • Salamanderwizard@lemmy.world
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    Then don’t look it up. My partner likes to be seriously choked during sex…what you gonna arrest me for making my partner cum?

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      what you gonna arrest me for making my partner cum?

      It might be the endgame at this point, who knows. We’re currently at “actors doing plays and people watching plays might become illegal”.

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        One of the parasite class’ main objectives has always been to make female orgasm illegal (and male orgasm, for anyone in the wrong social class).

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        That is a seriously problematic study with few controls and a small sample size.

        Pilots regularly train in for hypoxia in hyperbaric chambers, losing consciousness repeatedly to train.

        Consent and education are important, but safely engaging in breath play is very unlikely to give your partner brain damage.

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          Yes but no. You’re not supposed to lose consciousness during those trainings. Generally if you do, it’s a failure and you have to do it again. The point is to be able to recognize hypoxia and respond before you lose consciousness.

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          This is patently false. It cause brain death period. Perhaps you can argue it is not that big of a deal because of the brains ability to rewire itself once you have destroyed a portion of it

          People do all kinds a bad activities for the brain so this is really nothing new.

          One person’s breath play (so gross to minimize it this way) is another person’s sexual violence.

          Edit: I would also like to point out frequency. The frequency of preferred sexual activity dwarfs the training you are talking about. Seems like a convenient and not thought out excuse.

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            One person’s breath play (so gross to minimize it this way) is another person’s sexual violence.

            Well, yeah, all forms of sex without consent are rape. This isn’t really saying anything.

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              I think you don’t get that the majority of women getting choked never gave consent. The extreme minority of people who do this consensually are just that.

              What is happening is a lot of men choking women because they can and women putting up with it.

              This is also similar to everyone knows a women who has been raped but no one knows a rapist.

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                You’re replying to a thread that explicitly says it’s being done consentually. This is a non-sequiter.

                You don’t solve non-consentual actions by complaining about two people doing the same thing consentually.

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                  Go read the thread from the beginning. Sorry if I got off topic and triggered your misogyny.

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                    Sorry if I got off topic and triggered your misogyny.

                    Glad you can recognize you changed the topic.

                    Discussing issues of consent is valuable and important. Doing so because two adult’s consentual acts make you uncomfortable is unhelpful and actively harmful because you’re conflating consentual and non-consentual actions.

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      I’ve NEVER “looked it up,” but it seems to be an almost mandatory part of most videos produced anymore - along with the usual several positions that must be assumed, and ending virtually every video in a facial. They all look the same.

      Well okay, did the last time I bothered looking for porn videos regularly. It’s been quite a while since I just couldn’t seem to avoid shit like that. Text stories are my porn anymore.

      I don’t GAF what you & your partner prefer to do in your private time. Conflating that with porn is both disingenuous, and possibly telling of how highly you think of yourself.

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        I mentioned what my partner and I do because at what point do these ridiculous laws stop? Right now, it’s just porn, but then it’s what you do in the privacy of your bedroom.

        Choking has not been a big thing in porn. There’s a shit ton of porn so of course there’s a lot of choking porn, doesn’t mean it’s the main thing.

        And positions now? What are you a nun? Does doggy bother you? Does Cowgirl? And highly of myself? Nah, I’ve been having a healthy sex life for 15 yrs…I’m just confident in my abilities.

        You’re the one coming off highly of themselves. Like we should care that you get bothered by sex between 2 or more consenting adults.

        Like, where do folks like you get this entitlement? That you can tell the rest of us what to do? Leave us alone. Leave others alone. Maybe worry about the pastors and government officials raping kids?

        High horse riding.

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          Whatever you say. I’m done with this childishness. There are valid concerns on all sides, but the attitudes since my initial rather fair comment have been utter shit, and so I’m done here.