• Chivera@lemmy.world
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    7 days ago

    I once went to a Chinese restaurant and when food arrived they also gave me a fork, when I looked around all the Asian customers were given chopsticks.

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      6 days ago

      I was on a date with an Asian woman years ago, and she decided to order Chicken Fried Rice. I don’t remember what I ordered, but it was something less stereotypically “white”.

      They gave me the fried rice, and a fork. We just laughed, traded dishes, and asked for another pair of chopsticks.

    • Evkob (they/them)@lemmy.ca
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      6 days ago

      My first partner was adopted from China as a baby, so she looked Chinese but culturally she was 100% Canadian, raised in a very meat & potatoes kind of family.

      My mom is a bit of a hippy, so she loved cooking stuff from all different cuisines and we’d regularly use chopsticks at home if eating Asian foods.

      We went to a Chinese place together once and the staff were howling with laughter at the white kid using chopsticks opposite the Asian woman with a knife and fork. She learned how to use chopsticks shortly after, haha.

    • VitoRobles@lemmy.today
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      6 days ago

      My wife asks for forks and knives all the time at Chinese restaurants. It’s more efficient for her.