You know how to take charge and get what you want.
“You’re way more committed than our last dom”.
Needs accessibility.
They’re good at objectifying hostages into coercive instruments.
This almost gets it. Complements should be about choices.
Instead of saying, “you’re so pretty.” Try, “that color really brings out your sparkle.”
“You’re hair looks so amazing today, did you try a new product?” Not “You have pretty hair.”
By complimenting the decision you have given ownership of the praise to the decision maker and not whatever gods you think made us. My hair is pretty because i painfully take care of it. Not because I’m blessed. Complement a persons decisions rather than station.
I love complimenting people, man or woman. However, as you said, I like to compliment something that took effort or at least commitment, not luck. It costs nothing and often nets happiness.
I’ve mentioned this on lemmy before, but one of my favorite memories is complimenting a random guy’s jacket in the waiting area at an Outback Steakhouse. The jacket was loud, but pretty cool. I said I liked it; he grinned, thanked me and clapped me on my shoulder. The person I presume was his girlfriend or wife rolled her eyes, but smiled.
That’s all the context I have, but I assume she had teased him for it and he had defended it. Whatever the actual circumstances were, everyone walked away smiling.
You smell great!
Your dramatic, you should try improv.
“Nice grip on the gun you have there. Have you been taking shooting lessons?”
I would have defaulted to complimenting her trigger discipline but…
Same
There are two ways to interpret this comic:
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men are incapable of giving complements for anything but looks.
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her looks are the only thing worth praising
Or: they don’t know anything about her and only have her appearance to go off.
“You have such confidence!”
Holding someone at gunpoint and demanding compliments certainly doesn’t speak well of her personality.
The second one seems to be the case here. She’s violent, no trigger discipline, and doesn’t give people any clues about her psychosis until it’s too late.
For all we know they started with a group of ten.
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You’re super excellent at expressing your sense of being oppressed.
“we actually hate you, we just think you are hot”
“Give me a complement that isn’t about my looks”
“Well, you gotta be pretty to receive those”
“Bang! bang! bang!”
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the hostage walk away…
Men getting angry. “Last compliment I got was 15 years ago. You at least get compliments!”
Careful. Last time there was a comic about complimenting men it got deleted because uh… Ah yes. Too wholesome.
Gotta admire how assertive she is
She’s being aggressive though
Call it enthusiasm
A little bit active-aggressive.
“You gals get compliments ?”
you know how to take charge
