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Keepthoseeyeslockedonmine@kinkycats.org to Ask Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com · 10 months ago

For #submissivesunday I'd like to know about what triggers you to feel most submissive...

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For #submissivesunday I'd like to know about what triggers you to feel most submissive...

Keepthoseeyeslockedonmine@kinkycats.org to Ask Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.com · 10 months ago
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For #submissivesunday I’d like to know about what triggers you to feel most submissive…

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    Assertive dom. When they make me feel I really don’t have any other options than to submit.

    I’m a switch and brat and subbing doesn’t always come naturally for me. In the beginning of a scene I have a tendency to start ‘topping from the bottom’, even if I consciously try to avoid it, and the dom can’t let that happen. Once I manage to let go, I do absolutely enjoy it and can enter a deep subspace, but I can’t do it without the dom really pushing and “breaking” me first. It’s kinda hard to explain and I don’t even fully understand it myself but at least I know some other top-leaning switches I’ve talked to have had similar experiences.

    • (っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ Goddess ♥ 🛐🛐🛐@lemmynsfw.com
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      Fun, good boy characteristics ;)

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        10 months ago

        @MuscularGoddess @JRaccoon and you certainly look like someone who could break any residual stubbornness or attempts at control 👀

        • (っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ Goddess ♥ 🛐🛐🛐@lemmynsfw.com
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          Breaking dom’s is an easy thing for me…wonder why… ;)

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            @MuscularGoddess well brute strength for sure, but maybe also looks, strength of will and intelligence as well…potentially?

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              Certainly requires a combination of many things I have going for myself. Looks to get your attention, allure to get you close, strength to position you how I want, intelligence to know which buttons to push, confidence to know I will make you do whatever I want, and experience from breaking so many different types of men and women.

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                @MuscularGoddess ngl, just reading that literally got me hard

                • (っ◔◡◔)っ ♥ Goddess ♥ 🛐🛐🛐@lemmynsfw.com
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                  If text made you feel that way then you’d really stand no chance in person with me ;) Subs who were doms are the best of subs ;)

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                    @MuscularGoddess oh really? Why is it that subs who were Doms as your favourite?

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