Hey all, I’m (32M) planning a trip with my wife (30F) next week and I was thinking of bringing something spicy along as a gift.

I’ve been looking into adult games for couples, but I’m a bit on the fence. I’ve read reviews of a specific one and lots of folks seem to enjoy them a lot. However, the more negative reviews focus on some of the questions and assignments and I’m not sure if it’s for us.

For instance, I see there are some knowledge questions that will just test what you know about certain topics. Others have said you can go from 0-100 really quick and that sexual assignments are timed with an hourglass which may make it kinda rushed.

What I’m hoping to accomplish is for us to reconnect on a physical level. Our sex life is okay, but it’s nothing spectacular. I’m interested to see if maybe we can reach a new level through something like this.

As an alternative, I’ve also seen a game where you can do the assignment on the card or drink if you don’t want to do that, that kinda seems more our speed. Yet I am kinda on the fence because I expect the quality of the cards to be pretty low, in the sense that they’ll go for cheap thrills or things that are more awkward than sexy.

  • Mandredge@lemmynsfw.com
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    7 days ago

    Did you end up trying this? I would be interested in hearing how it went.

    I have never tried a game like that, but I could see the benefit in letting you both experiment with new activities without pressure that you will enjoy them. The closest comparison I can think of is a time when, as a joke, I licked between my wife’s toes. I was fully expecting her to scream and recoil. Instead, she moaned. We both learned something new about her that day.

    • Vinny_93@lemmy.worldOP
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      7 days ago

      I decided against it and all things considered, we had a great weekend so I don’t regret it. I think it might’ve been an awkward move on my part in the end to surprise her with it, plus the house that we had there might’ve been too small and not private enough.