That’s perfect, sounds like how you set a scene for any kind of play, set agreements and expectations.

In pole dancing terms that’s the gluteal crease or gluteal fold.

Medically the gluteal fold is the buttcrack.

There are definitely plenty of women who have no trouble with producing enough lubrication. However “not making enough lubrication” becomes more common with menopause and perimenopause.

It’s fairly common, especially as women age, to make less lubrication to keep up with demand during sex. Especially with PIV the lubricant is drying out with each thrust.

This guy diy’s