LOL that’s me after my wife and kid shower. Luke warm dribble and I’m a bald guy so I don’t have to fuss with washing hair and stuff. My showers are quick.
Reddit transplant. Formerly mr-blister-fister. A depressed and distressed dad from the Toronto area. Handy with the Photoshop and other creative tools. Mental health advocate.
LOL that’s me after my wife and kid shower. Luke warm dribble and I’m a bald guy so I don’t have to fuss with washing hair and stuff. My showers are quick.
Is 40gal-50gal normal for a home? Previous owners were an elderly couple. I’m sure it suited them well. But with our family of 3 with laundry and occasional dishwasher running, it seems like it’s just slightly not enough. Especially if we’re all trying to get ready for an event or have family staying with us.
Maybe I just need to get it serviced… Thanks!
Really? A home water heater doesn’t do 3 showers back to back to back? For the record that’s just a stock photo. We actually have a 50Gal. I just feel like when I was a kid growing up at my parents house, our heater could easily handle 7-8 showers in a row when we had relatives staying with us. Thanks for the reply!
I’m originally from the UK but moved to Canada when little.
Fall is my favorite season. I LOVE cold, dark, rainy days. My entire body just feels relaxed.
Summers here are getting hotter and hotter, with long stretches of 30c where you can’t do anything.
Winters here are either painfully freezing with face-cracking winds or giant dumpings of snow that make getting around impossible
Fall is a nice blend of cooler temps, a little rain, a little darkness, a fresh start with kids gone back to school, just generally pleasant as long as you don’t have to clean up too many fallen leaves :)


Is it normal? Yes. Is it healthy? No. I wish I spent my younger years focused on building myself rather than worrying about things out of my control.
Find yourself. Find what motivates you and makes you happy. Learn to be happy on your own. Learn to be confident without the validation from others. As you go through that journey, you’ll run into similar like-minded people and maybe some that you’re actually attracted to (lol)
It’ll happen when you least expect it when you’re focused on other priorities. Hope this helps.
My kid is slowly growing out of Bluey and that makes me so sad. I LOVE the show. So smartly written. As a dad with mental health issues, the relationship the parents have with the kids gives me something to strive towards. Can’t say enough.


I pulled the hydrometer out of my cigar humidor to became more aware of the dampness of my basement. I also spent over $1,000 on evicting a family of raccoons out from under my backyard deck. So yeah, I get it HAH


I’m in the same boat. Bought a home in 2020. It’s been a constant stream of fixes and updates and replacements. My mortgage payments are high enough. Now we’re dumping thousands of dollars on flood prevention, evestrough replacement, random leaky pipes, furnace cleaning, deck refinishing, grass and landscaping. Wife and I both work full-time. We are dipping into savings to upkeep our home. I totally regret it. Should have bought a 2-3bed condo instead. At least we could plan for the monthly condo fees and not worry about sudden emergency fixes. I don’t know. I hate it.
Could never sleep properly before kids. Now, I’m tired all the time and could fall asleep in seconds, on any surface.