I don’t think I need to emphasize this more: everything in writing! When HR decides to do nothing, and the problem escalated, you and your coworkers will have proof that you have complained (hopefully many times), and that nothing was done.

When I say escalated, it could be anything. From complaining directly to higher management that HR is useless; to the whole department doing a mass walk-out. Either way, you need proof that you have made complaints and that they fell on deaf ears.

Wait till you hear about Word!

I’d even argue that people should either start with, or get to 4 before committing to any long term relationship.

Change in the other person will come, but it’s not up to you. You can only control how you want yourself to change.

moving onto Mint.

Yeah, but in another 2 years it would be the same with Mint 23. Then 24. And so on… /s

discuss the general subject area knowledgeably, and learn from each others perspectives.

Wish Huberman did that. Instead, in the comment he went, “you’re wrong”, got defensive, and started gaslighting.

Possibly.

No. Definitely. Took less than 5 seconds to check.

In my defence

Respectfully, no. There is so defence for posting hallucinated misinfo.

Edit: Also, someone else already posted the video where Hoffman called out Huberman’s BS.

Somewhat my relationship with the Rust compiler. “I hate you and your stupid rules! …but that was very informative thank you”.

You’re a massive du -sh

Alpha Centauri

I still have no idea why they just let the IP drift into oblivion, and chose to keep milking Civ instead…

https://www.vice.com/en/article/guardian-trans-journalists/

Sorry about the Vice source, but it does publish the letter in full, complete with links to the problematic Guardian articles.

Ok. Rub teeth against doorknob. Got it. Thanks!

Yes. With an ebook reader, I can now not read the 500 books I carry!

They’re just mystery meat with herbs, rolled in crumbly pastry.
The mystery is part of the fun… Is it beef, pork, or roadkill? We don’t care!

If they meant paszteciki, it looks like what the anglosphere knows as a sausage roll?

One thing that I feel hasn’t been addressed enough by the comments:

**Stay. The hell. Away. From. Social. Media. **

It is toxic, and will bring nothing but misery, jealousy, and insecurity.

We had ours late in life, so had the hindsight of having our circle of friends going through parenthood before us. You mentioned ‘social’ pressure, norms, expectations, etc. All of them are amplified 10x by social media, which presents an unrealistic, curated view of parenthood. Not to mention the 50 different ‘advice’ on what you ‘should’ do as a parent. (You should breastfeed or your baby will be a serial killer. No, just start with formula, it will make your life easier. No, you should give them organic goat milk to help them grow better).

We deleted all the apps just before the baby was born. It has now been a few years since we touched any of them (except FB Marketplace, because buying anything new is ridiculous. And, I guess, Lemmy). The only pictures you’ll find of our little one is in our family chat group. The only advice we’ll take are from the midwives and nurses that keep track of the baby’s growth, and has a 24h hotline for us to ask literally anything.

People you know, including parents, will give unsolicited advice. Feel free to listen to them, but know that most of the time you can tell them off or ignore them. This is your baby. Your family.

And feel free to ignore this advice from a stranger on Lemmy 🙂

Yes. IIRC it’s based on latest LTS kernel with Google patches. So it’s been “year of the Linux phone” for a while now.

It’s unfortunate that the slop they put on top of it is such a privacy nightmare. PostmarketOS is trying to change that and supports Plasma, Gnome, etc. But it’s early days yet and still rough around the edges from what I’ve been reading.

It’s supposed to be a temporary fix until proper maintenance can be done … The amount is probably surprising but not necessarily concerning.

Exactly what I always say about my code.

Decades ago I had the pleasure of marking student essays. We humans have mastered writing vague, repetitive slop long before we taught machines to do so…

Hello, fellow old person 🤝

They have been pretty good on popular technologies like python & web development.

I tried to do Kotlin for Android, and they kept tripping over themselves; it’s hilarious and frustrating at the same time.