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Yeah I get pleasure from pleasuring her so I do it for the both of us, and as you say we usually fuck after she cums so we both win (sometimes if my eating/fingering has been too wild she finishes me using oral, but I still cum so it’s the same)

👩: I really like anal, it feels amazing if it’s done right. For that, I have to be really horny, the kind of horny that makes me eager for anal. Also, I need a good amount of lube and having my man on top of me (I lay belly down and raise my ass a bit). We’ve only really tried that and doggy anal, but tbh the laying down variant feels the best for me and insertion is actually easier than doggy. If everything is okay I enjoy it tremendously. Of course I also do it so my man can enjoy it, I love to be a good girl for my master 🐶.

Not really, actually it kinda is the opposite for me. Whenever I see porn or sex videos of other people, ofc I find it hot and arousing and all that and get horny bc of the girls in the videos, but I always end up fantasizing doing whatever I’m watching with my girl, and that actually makes me even hornier haha. The idea of doing things that look so hot in video with my dear gf makes my heart pound hard and it makes me excited because I can actually try it with her, and if I send the video she’ll likely find them as hot as I do and be totally okay with doing it ourselves (and maybe record it haha). Sometimes that fantasizing helps me cum

Good luck, we have a lot of phone and videocall sex, and most of the time I try to make her cum first, I like it even more than cumming myself

What I always do is set the mood telling her what I would like to do to her right at the moment, describing how much I like her big and round tits, that I’d like to rub, touch and feel her skin and belly, and how much I’d like to slap and grab her ass. I sometimes tell her to close her eyes and imagine what I’m telling her. It usually turns her on a lot. When I want to be quick, I just tell her to rub her nipples and go from there, she’s very sensitive. tbf she’s also my sub so it’s easier for me as she goes to subspace very quickly and never refuses my commands, so I don’t really need to do a lot to get her started. From there I do a lot of dirty talk, reminding her how sexy she is for me, being more explicit and sexual with my descriptions, and jerking off with her so she can hear my moans (they turn her on a lot, and guys, women love male moans, try it). Then I just go along with her moans and fantasies, at that point she’s on fire and it’s the one setting the rhythm while I follow her with dirty talk and descriptions. Sometimes I also give her commands on how I want her to touch herself, give her little “challenges” (like not cumming in the next 10 seconds, slapping her pussy and/or tits X times, etc), and make her go total slut and sub mode making her yell how much she wants my dick and making her bark like a dog (and when she’s extremely aroused she loves to be treated like that, so it’s a plus). Then I just go on until she’s in the verge of cumming, at which point I either torture her a bit forbidding her orgasm for some time, or I tell how I wanna fuck her very explicitly and how much I need to cum inside her, and then give her permission to cum (I’m training her to cum on command).

Being very descriptive and detailed in the last part is the key for us. It gets her going a lot and makes her cum hard. Also most of the time I give her instructions on how to touch herself so she’s directly stimulating herself sexually, so that also helps. I think having phone sex is more like helping her get aroused, and when she starts masturbating, being like a complement to her. Let her be the center of attention and think fast to adapt to what she needs at the moment to keep going. Even when you’re a dom like me, her pleasure is the most important thing, and even when you do things like making her say she’s your bitch, or barking like a dog, or yelling how much she needs your cock, it’s more to make her feel good rather than you. I’m not saying you have to neglect yourself of course, but I’m pretty sure all men have more than enough with a woman’s moans and the realization she’s feeling good bc of you to masturbate and cum. So it’s like an orchestra (lol) when you’re the conductor and she’s the instruments. Yes, you are essential for making a good symphony and are the one pulling the strings from behind, but she’s the protagonist, the melody, the art. Think of it like that and it will help you a lot. Also thanks to technology we do videocall sex most of the time so that also helps a lot, I can show her my dick and how I stroke it when she’s very aroused and that’s usually more than enough to make her extremely horny, and we both get a good show from each other. But we still do a lot of dirty talk in those occassions, and what I said applies there

I know that people say Linux fucks you with how complicated it can be to use sometimes, but this is another level

Nice, didn’t know Brave had videocalls lol. Since it’s based on Jitsi, maybe that’d be our best option. Thanks a lot

Thanks, I’ll check it

Thanks, we’ll check it out

Yeah, in 2020 it was completely free and no registration needed, I also remember it, we used Jitsi in some of our classes instead of Zoom. But now it’s not as good, I read that authentication was implemented in 2022, so of course people like us who used Jitsi during corona didn’t know about it

Thanks, sounds good, I’ve read some good things about matrix lately but haven’t really delved into it. Well, worst case we could just mute our device to not hear other people lol. Thank you 🙌

Can’t currently use Jitsi without a Google or GitHub account (unless we’re okay with someone else to be in control of the meeting, which we aren’t), so can’t use it. But I’ll check the other options, thanks 👍

Yeah, it was the first thing I thought about, but after trying to set up a call…

I have to either authenticate myself or have someone authenticated in the call, which would be the moderator, and I assume that’d give them powers we’d prefer to have ourselves (mute, kick, etc). And if I want to authenticate,

the only options are Google or Github, can’t use Proton Mail. I guess I could self-host an instance, but that would require a lot of work

Thank you so much 🙌

More variety for couple communities. Well, we’re very biased about that, we’d like a chubby couples community

👧: I do enjoy it, but I need a loooot of lube and stimulation, and that he doesn’t take his dick out after he puts it in. Still, it’s always very intense and amazing

It was a bit strange haha. It would have been a quick convo, but we both were afraid the other wouldn’t want it, so when we finally talked about it, we were like testing the waters the whole time, until we realized we both found the idea of posting online very hot. I gotta say, I was the one who gave the idea haha. Then everything was fast, I already knew NSFW subreddits, and we searched for other places, decided which of our old private videos would be suited for our first uploads, the profile name, etc. We were 2 years into our relationship when we took the step. In my case, I never considered the idea until I started browsing the gonewild subreddits (last September) and thought our private videos wee also very hot (although very amateur lol). In her case she told me she wanted to do that long before than me, but she wasn’t sure because she had a bad experience with an ex who threatened to share her nudes, and she was scared I’d do the same. But when I finally suggested the idea, she already trusted me enough to do it, and I’ve been very careful hiding our faces and any details so she doesn’t have to worry.

Mmmmm, I’d say this new facet of our lives has improved our sex life in the sense that we try new things because that would make a cool video, or maybe we see a post on Reddit, Lemmy or BlueSky and want to do the same. Sometimes we record, sometimes we don’t and just enjoy each other, but it has helped us on trying new things and thinking of new ideas for content (for instance, we want to do a 30-day sex challenge when we finally move together). Even so, we try to not let it control our sex lives, like, we record something we were gonna do anyways, and not do something just to record it, but I have to admit that sometimes we have to have sex in different ways than usual to make a good video, because of lightning, angles, etc; while normally we wouldn’t care about that. On the other hand, she likes to be sluttier when she knows I’m recording, so that’s a bonus lol. We enjoy it a lot, and love to read comments and know people find our content hot and arousing. Also now we’re both more comfortable with our bodies, thanks to the positive comments we receive. Yes, we’re working out lately, but it’s for health reasons, not to try to change us or anything

No, the SD is not because of any locations, they are just 2 random letters lol

I wrote a kind of erotica about it here

https://lemmynsfw.com/post/22447023

Well I think we have pretty normal/average/non-pornstar bodies, mainly because we’re chubby, so you could check our content if you want, we post it here for fun and for free anyways lol. Also my girl posts a lot of solo content here too, with this account