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Of course! The French language is so meaningless that sometimes things actually mean something.

It was an attempt not to always emphasize the fact of being French.

But obviously, even in good faith, humility does not suit us well.

In my language, “6 7” reads “six sept”, which sounds like “cis het”, a shorten form for “cisgender heterosexual”.

I’m fine giving or receving if my partner asks for it, particularly as forplay before anal sex. But it doesn’t arouse me that much, I’ll never do the first move as I prefer to use my fingers and save my mouth for other body parts.

This isn’t my first rodeo

“What’s a nice place like you doing in a girl like this?” – Deadpool

For me, the fediverse is 100% mobile. Even when I’m on my PC, I grab my mobile for lemmy/mastodon/pixelfed

With this logic, why have a rectangular selection tool, when the grid and freehand selection achieve the same result?

When you put it that way, it sounds silly.

But there are poor countries where this is a reality. Some people have no other means than prostitution to pay for medication for a relative

There’s a big difference between what you love (and would do for free), and what you’d agree to do for money (for an amount to be negotiated, under working conditions to be negotiated). That’s the idea of salaried work, basically.

To fight climate change, we need investment in green energy. That doesn’t mean we need more and more data centers (there’s a surge since 2022) using an energy mix with a undetermined ratio of fossile energy and green energy.

Yeah, I know Shumpeter theory. It does not predict what happens when a new technology massively destroies white collar and creative jobs.

Like tons of bullshit IA generated websites when you look for information about a file format, or conversion tools for this file format

Because of the environmental cost and climate change

Because of the jobs being destroyed by productivity gains

Because of the Internet starting to fill up with slop that drowns out the really relevant sites

For women, I have no preference.

About men, I’m not into very hairy men, but I like to kiss a face with a small beard.

Specifically for oral sex, I prefer trimmed pubic hair (for boys and girls). I don’t like having my nose in a huge bush

My answer isn’t going to be much fun, but I think it’s important for a first time.

First things first. Consent: explicit and enthusiastic, continuous and revocable, free and informed. It’s an ethical question and that’s the only justification needed. I’d still add that it’s the bare minimum if you don’t want to screw up your relationship, and if you want penetration to go well because she’s sufficiently lubricated.

Secondly, think about birth control (pill, condoms, IUD.) and STI prevention (condoms). Yes, even if you’re both virgins. In particular, the papillomavirus isn’t only transmitted by sex, it doesn’t have any obvious symptoms, but it can cause uterine cancer. So use condoms and get tested. And with condoms, a little extra lube is always a good thing.

Finally, while we’re on the subject of no-fun advices, communication is key. Sex is a sensual activity, like music or cooking, which means that everyone has their own preference and desires at the time. It depends on each person’s nervous system, what they saw and want to try, what they’ve already done and want to do again, and so on. So, there’s no magic formula that always works for everybody, you have to communicate to know what to do. It can be words, it can be being attentive to their reactions, it can be letting yourself be guided by the hand, it can be a bit of all that.

Finally, don’t feel limited to the sexual script you saw everywhere (I mean, on youporn). It doesn’t have to be step 1: kisses, step 2: boobs, step 3; masturbation/oral, step 4: penetration. Take your time. Penetration is not the ultimate achievement.

P.S. to answer your question: missionary is one of the easiest position, you can kiss and you get feedback from each other.

P.P.S cut your finger nails

If you mean without any kind of physical stimulation , it happened to me a few times while giving oral sex. I don’t know if it was purely intellectual or if it was a form of mimetism to my partner’s pleasure.

If it’s penetration or mutual masturbation, there’s a feedback loop based on hearing: our accelerating breaths, our mutual moans, our words. There’s no pressure to cum together at exactly the same time, but it’s very exciting to feel each other’s excitement.

If it’s asymmetrical, blowjob or masturbation, it’s more about touch, in the way my partner keeps the rhythm and starts to build up intensity, accelerates, and accentuates the pressure.

No, it just makes it boring straight

There was a way to be less dismissive and simply talk about “multiple partners” instead of using a misogynistic expression.

Not an American either, but cops do the same in France.

Most of the homeless people who live in tents are immigrants. The government is full of authoritarian racists, and the cops are violent racist bastards who have order to move these people out of the sight of the good citizens. There are videos of cops tearing down tents with cutters and spraying repellent on belongings and mattresses.

Why is there so little reaction? Because most people think it’s a good idea to protect the real estate market where they live. And even when people mobilize (yellow jackets, retirements, Palestine…), they get nothing but police violence.

I’d only date people who are roughly my age, with whom we share the same generational culture and who are in the same stages of life.