

I’ve thought about this before. All this talk of resilience, bouncing back, standing strong, etc seems so… empty. Of course we’ll do all that after something devastating and traumatic. But that is thanks to our biological drive to survive and reproduce, not some innate, higher ideal that only the ‘strong’ among us possess. The whole point of human progress is to evolve and thrive beyond being resilient to traumatic events which shouldn’t have happened in the first place.
Implying I had control? I’m slowly coming to think i don’t.