

People worry far too much about what others think of them and what mold they should fit into.
Become proficient in one or more things so others find you interesting.
No offense, cause I think your message is good overall, but you contradict yourself in the same paragraph.
Trying to learn things so others will like you more isn’t a great way to do it. I know because I tried that. My self-love became conditional with that mindset, and there was always something else I could come up with I had to learn or change about myself before I could be lovable.
My old therapist called me out on it. He said there’s nothing wrong with pushing yourself to improve, but if you don’t balance that with unconditional self love it will simply lead to depression.
It was the “so others find you interesting” part I was reacting to. It sounds like that’s not what you meant, so don’t worry about it.