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Cake day: July 20th, 2024

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  • Despite what the internet would lead you to believe, body type is not directly correlated to being dominant or submissive. Neither does gender, sexual orientation, clothing or anything else on the surface. The type of person you are sexually, your preferences, your kinks, are only going to come out when you sit down and talk to your partner - or viewers - about it. Otherwise, its just folks making assumptions - and generally forcing standard hetero-normative gender roles into non-standard relationships or people. A big, bulky, tough guy can easily be submissive in bed, just as a soft-spoken, short man can be a cold dom. And the idea of a bottom dom would make some dude’s brains explode. At the end, its about personality, not looks.

    So the answer is, unfortunately, this isn’t something that can be “fixed” because its not a personal problem. Its just people having an uneducated perspective of how sexual relations work.



  • There are already communities for all that kind of content. Creating one more would just increase the bloat. We don’t need to change existing spaces into something else, just concentrate users and have a way of guiding new people into existing communities, to avoid even more duplicates.

    I also don’t see the point on promoting people to mods, or why that would make anyone want to stick around. The average user already doesn’t want the responsibility of uploading content, why add the responsibility of moderating content on top of that? Not only that, but there’s nothing correlating mods to helping a community grow. What matters in that is people interested in contributing.



  • I just don’t think there’s enough active userbase for that, and it really isn’t something you can fix on the fly. The ratio of Like/Upvote > Share > Comment > Post is always an issue for online social spaces, its just that a few website got big enough to make it seem like its easy to get people to contribute.

    The architecture of Lemmy is also a little bothersome at times, especially when it comes to displaying media and making gallery posts.

    Probably one thing I’d like for LemmyNSFW to have is a Admin owned community for people to share communities and talk about merging, managing, sharing, etc. Something like https://lemmy.world/c/newcommunities but for our side of the pond, and now just for new but also talking about present communities and what can be done for them.



  • I like to believe it is, I’d like to get crossposts on my communities (if they adhere to the guidelines, of course) and try to put an effort into crossposting for relevant communities that I know. I don’t think its spam as long as you’re not, like, cross posting a single image into 5+ communities every time.

    Not everyone is constantly browsing Local, and even if they do, you might lose something here and there with the sheer volume of contributions. Cross posting to specific communities will highlight it to the people who are subscribed, and also help the administrators.






  • This is a tricky one, RPG and co-op generally don’t mix. Larian games have attempted that a few times, though they’re a deep dive. I’d recommend Original Sin 2 from their selections.

    Then there’s hack&slashes, I played Grim Dawn with co-op once, but that’s more of a damage competition than something you really need to think about to progress.

    Cassette Beasts added co-op recently, but unfortunately I haven’t had time to try

    Then there are games like Borderlands, Dying Light or Dead Island which are far more action-y but do have levelling up and skills to unlock