I like tease and denial stuff. My ex got into it for me. The first night we spent together, he ruined my orgasm perfectly and then locked me in chastity for 3 months.

I love people who love things I do as well. A couple examples from recent memory: I love black metal and I was wearing a hoodie from an obscure band and this guy recognized the logo. We had a long talk about music and that was definitely a huge turn on. I also really love when people geek out about stuff, and I met a guy who’s a mechanical engineer and he was happy to talk about his job and all the things that go along with it.

I guess I’m just describing having a personality.