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That’s the thing though. You don’t just want anybody to hold your dildo. It takes a special person to perfectly encapsulate the essence of being a mere inanimate object designed for you and your pleasure alone.

Preferably I’d get a slave to hold it steady.

Probably mostly depends on your local community. I early on made the decision to only friend people I’ve met in real life.

Women probably still have it bad until they blocked half the site.

Fetlife is still very active over here. Of course the real life events are the most important.

Get a kinky hobby and then join your local community. For me it was bondage. Go to meetings, get to know people (emphasis on people). When you pass the vibe check you should get invited to parties. During all this you should be able to get to know enough people who are DTF.

I wish I could upvote you twice.

Meeting each other.

And then meating each other.

Not about sex with trans women, but generally about fantasy vs reality. Sometimes things seem great in fantasy but are boring or mundane in reality. And vice versa.

For me (other people’s experiences may differ) some examples are:

Cell-Popping. You heat a needle white hot and hold it over your or your partner’s skin to make the skin cells quickly heat up and burst to create a small superficial wound. Do that in a line or so and you can draw little pictures. It usually doesn’t leave scars so it only lasts for a few days.

I thought it would be super hot. To mark my partner and be marked by them. To endure the pain.

In the end it wasn’t super painful. And sure, the pictures looked nice. But it wasn’t really anything special over just using a pen to doodle something.

On the other hand there was mummification. Encasing someone in seran wrap for example. I thought it would be boring because you could just lie there and do nothing.

Super wrong. It’s intense. When you also wrap ears and eyes you are completely gone from the world. You lose all track of time. It’s almost like being weightless because the wrap also cuts off all feelings from the skin. If you then get just the slightest sensation from your partner, like a touch or a kiss, it is magnified a thousand fold.

Once mummified a girl at a private party. And while she lay there our pizza order arrived and everyone was aflutter with sorting out payment and who got what and she didn’t notice a thing. We brought her back gently and slowly and when she was somewhat coherent presented the pizza to her. In her words: “Best. Aftercare. Ever.”

Someone messaged me out of the blue with slightly sexy intent. We had some nice non-botty conversations and I directed them towards Fetlife, which seemed to open up a whole new world to them.

Not exactly a pickup line. But at a bondage event I asked this woman if she would like to tie me up. She answered that she was actually looking for someone with tits. I pointed at my ugly manboobs and said that I’ve got some. And that sealed the deal.

Another event, same woman, same start, I asked her to tie me up. Again she declined, stating the she was waiting to tie up [same first name as me]. Again I just had to point out that I am [first name] and we got on. She literally took my breath away. It was awesome. Ended up double teaming me with another domme.

Well, I did have some lewd sketches made, but I wasn’t nude. You can see them here: https://lemmynsfw.com/post/341198

I was the dude that did the ropes.

I have the big titties as well. Actually helped me hook up with a girl once. She had said that she was actually looking for someone with big titties that day. I pointed out mine and thus sealed the deal.

Biggest rizz moment of my life.

Harem Hotel, but only as the main character!

Harem Hotel is nice. Sometimes the writing is a little rough but still interesting. The story is not finished though. I think the conclusion is at least two updates away.

I’m not exactly into the mommy/little play but my general feelings towards being dominated should apply. It’s just a great way to let go of any responsibility and just relax. And all the while your desired and loved.

It might not be to your liking due to the BDSM-content, but the Sunstone comics are pretty good with consent and very sex positive people. Drama mostly comes from the normal relationships between the characters.

The meta-story is that it is an exaggerated retelling of the protagonists’ real lifes and is thus relatively realistic.