I dunno, it takes a type.

Knew a guy online who was part of a game guild and regularly told a teenager to go kill himself for not healing him on time during raids.

One day the Kid shot himself.

The guy was a full on asshole in rl, much older than the kid, had a family and a job and told himself and everyone that he wasn’t at fault cuz the kid was not mentally stable.

Like dude, regardless of someone’s mental health he is a bully with an anger problem and leaned into unleashing it on a young kid.

They get angry if someone else is having buttsex witin the privacy of their own house and are of the same gender.

They get angry if someone else has any autonomy over their own body.

They get angry if someone with slightly different color skin or speaks slightly differently is pulling a paycheck doing a job they wouldn’t do and looking after their own family. Basically existing.

You say that as if republicans have suddenly developed a critical thinking ability and wouldn’t simply give into ego to be angry at the principle.

If you’re in canada just go on the shop app. Forget this Amazon bullshit. Buy local.

Huh… so it’s getting its advice scrape from Reddit. Now it makes sense where it’s getting the idea of telling teens to die by suicide. That place is a shithole where intelligence goes to die.

You seem lost. Do you often believe you own all spaces to tell everyone what to do? (Cuz no one made you come here either and you could just as much block the communities in which you are too fragile to visit)

The bike for 20-30 mins will not get you to and from work.

Besides: they got their exercise. Good for them looking after their health and finding ways to encourage a good habit into their daily schedule where they can however possible.

It’s like back in the 70s 80s to teach a child not to hit or bite you bite him(usually him) back to teach them that it hurts. Then they knock it off and learn empathy all at once.

Only this is a full grown man.

And at that moment Sharon realized she was pretty happy with her life as is. And left to go enjoy the happiest life without being questioned.

A few years later Stan took his life because of male depression.

Geez. Good thing they weren’t using the pool at the time.

Do they not just a cheaper version that could come without wifi or Bluetooth? I usually get that option where available for any products. because I’m a cheap ass.

Thank fuck I left my mount on password. Locked up permissions on Linux might be a pain but it is a lesser pain.

For those who need it on here and actually want to address the biggest problems they are facing I’ll leave this here: https://www.choosingtherapy.com/15-best-books-on-self-love/

What I’m gleaning from the worst of the posters I’ve seen and responded to on here, it’s not even the hardship so much as low self esteem from making comparisons about the hardship they are feeling and getting most hung up on.

Every one of them get hung up on their perspective someone else’s thoughts about them. It’s always about someone else who ‘hates them’. And they cannot overcome it.

they aren’t seeing this as a self esteem problem but a problem with the world for not gifting them what they are missing from themself. Self acceptance. And living in that resentment and taking it out on everyone around them. You can see it in how their first go-to is ‘to tell the left to fuck off’ as being their entire reason for going right. They don’t even lead with what they are getting on the right unless you dig more than one conversation from it. So that tells you right there how little they are willing to work on themself when you have to basically pull teeth to get it out of them that there’s supposedly any depth in their decisions to go right.

this isn’t growth. This isn’t the trait of a survivor. This is not someone who is getting their needs met. This is victimhood mentality. You see this kind of rhetoric in full blown addicts who won’t seek therapy to stop their carousel of self destruction.

These incels are their own worst enemy. Not the world. Themselves.

I’m going to guess that you are speaking well about your mother as she’s helped you gain some good tools to see your self worth and regardless of what possible mean thing another person might even say to you: that’s a reflection of themselves. Not you.

And you said it yourself: others have had it as bad or worse than you. And you can recognize this.

you’re not alone in your struggle. No one is really. In group therapies you especially see this as each person tells their story : it’s the same thing for every listener (who is working on the self) that regardless of where they come from’ , we’re all struggling. And we’re not here to compare ourselves to others.

Looking at your situation as well as any survivors of hardship: they understand that they have to make a decision every day to commit to surviving. It isn’t something given, it’s something you do for you with intention.

I’ve not yet heard anything yet that at the right are actually offering them that helps them deal with this problem. There are no tools. All there is only anger and spite towards the left and a healthy side of a ‘poor me’ attitude.

Calm down incel.

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Nice profile.

Look at you. You’re blaming an entity for ‘abandoning’ you.

You know who doesn’t sit around being bitter and live in fragile worry about being abandoned?

People who actually reach out and deal with their mental health and take some ownership over it.

Doesn’t sound like the right are helping you. Sounds like they are Just feeding you a victimhood complex.

So what attracted you to this topic exactly if you’re not violent and found all the answers you need from the right to convince me or anyone you’re dealing?

Why did you personalize this post specifically to include you so much that you felt compelled to defend yourself here? Why do you care? How are the right teaching you to be accepting of yourself so well that you’re getting tripped up on what you think other people are thinking and how you feel about it?

How are you owning your shit if you’re joining a post to blame the left?

What efforts in mental health have you taken?

What steps do you take to help your homosexual brothers stay safe?

They are men too.

Attacking left isn’t addressing men’s problems so if you’re legitimately interested in men’s health and safety, attacking the left isn’t how you convince me you actually care.

And take any chance you get to troll online to threaten hostility to the left. That is after all why you’re here in this thread on this topic. It isn’t offering much in the way of dealing with feelings and handling challenges of life.

The whole thing hinges on a fragile balance on a very specific mindset that isn’t sustainable without following a very specific path.

Easy to melt a snowflake under that kind of pressure.

And throwing away homosexual men. Their safety isn’t even considered in your one little check box box when they face some of the biggest challenges among men.

Not really convincing me that men’s health is the forefront of your interest here.

So you think joining in threads just to rub threats in faces is the help men need. You’ve chosen Poking holes in all the tires and yell. That was your choice. The left didn’t make you this. You chose this.

Sounds like a lot of outside comparisons you’ve latched onto personalize and abandoned yourself and no longer affirm yourself. There is therapy for this(and some good books out there for it eg: unfuck your brain(they also have a podcast)/the body keeps the score, anything Jay shetty and brene brown I found these quite helpful )

So there are some options. That’s assuming you are willing to get involved in finding solutions for yourself with the problems you are facing.

But jumping into a thread and getting involved only to threat ‘going right’ rather than digging in on this stuff as mental health stuff to address into a working solution….weird.

It’s almost as if people are getting involved in this post to weaponize mens issues/mental health issues and not interested in being part of the solution in addressing these problems … also weird.