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Cake day: June 17th, 2023

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  • Many people lose the mental capabilities they used to have when they were young, so they become unable to act the same way as they used to. They often lose the ability to learn new things. We’re talking 60+, so there are hormonal changes that can influence both the physical and psychological side of a person. Just stay young in your head is an advise similar to saying “cheer up” to a depressed person. The mental decline is probably partly genetic, partly pure luck or lack thereof, and a minor part can be influenced by lifestyle. So I guess try to influence what you can, excercise, eat healthy food, read, meet younger people and hope for the best.















  • I think this kind of anger can be healthy in some way. It’s just way too intense now. But it’s completely understandable - the world seems to get fucked in many ways lately. There are and always going to be many people needing help in this fucked up world. I find it good to be able to be helpful or just do anything nice for them. Just little things that won’t mean a huge change but can be a tiny bit of light for someone. It helps me to ease the anger a bit.


  • Ok, I get this and agree. I’d argue though OP probably is genuinely silly. The problem is when you use dating apps, you have to present yourself in some way. Taking pictures of yourself and choosing the good ones is really quite a killer of spontaneity and truthfullness. And everyone knows you want to show off your good sides in the profile. Taking silly pictures with his cousin that he may end up being a bit embarrased about later seems as genuine as it gets.