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  • certified_expert@lemmy.worldtoComic Strips@lemmy.worldskillz
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    4 days ago

    I’ve seen the thorn guy around on other posts. It bothered me at the beginning, but now I’m like “hey! It’s the thorn guy! I know him!”

    Next time I find him, I think we are gonna be friends or something.

    Also, this the fediverse, we don’t yell at each other for these little things :)


  • You both need a time off, stop or make interactions really “rational and controlled”. It takes time to shift to different dynamic between you two.

    Once you both (or at least one of you) get new partners, things will be more promising for a genuine friendship.

    Otherwise, lingering feelings or “emotionally weak” days seriously risk ruining the relationship and make things permanently awkward.

    source: my own experience. I am best friends with my ex. And lived the process myself.