Have you considered other distros? I’ve had lots of success with the immutable fedora variants, which offer great stability and NVIDIA drivers in the base system. If you need apt, you create a new Debian container in the box buddy and make that container be your default when opening a terminal.
Gnome variant: https://projectbluefin.io/
KDE variant: https://getaurora.dev/
Gaming variant: https://bazzite.gg/
They are all the same distro with different desktop setup and default apps. You can install one of them and seamlessly switch to another one without losing any data.
I actually went to read older posts one day. They are actually much better compared to the more recent posts. Now it’s just trolls and shitposting.
LWN is where it’s at for Linux discussion.