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  • You are right, we are all mad here. I agree with you. Empathy and compassion is mocked and exploited, vegans are treated like a joke. Freedom fighters, activists for equality, climate and genocide protesters, etc, are treated like stupid and evil terrorists and enemies of the state.

    Our species sucks and we fully deserve this climate apocalypse we’ve created.

    We are predisposed to be cruel and greedy locusts, who build and support systems of inequality with undeservingly powerful leaders who only ever lust for war/more. This is the story of nearly every human civilisation we have history for. Those who strived for a better civilisation are destroyed by those who want conquest, money, power, a leg up with their gods, etc.

    I hope beyond hope that we fully die out before any of us get off world in any meaningful way to propagate yet more obscenities. It’s stupid to think that there aren’t trillionaire funds currently working on this, I don’t think it was just a punchline in Don’t Look Up.

    And I also hope that maybe one day, billions of years from now, when the earth has had time to heal from the damage we have caused, something better than us could evolve here.








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    1 month ago

    And then when a woman is raped and murdered in her hotel room, men like you will be saying that she must have wanted it because she didn’t even take basic precautions to make sure no-one could get in.

    So when women start taking these precautions, because generations of women before them have learnt from experience that when a man rapes you, it’s your fault for not taking precautions… men like you now complain that women are overly paranoid and making things worse for themselves, because their precautions are hurting your feelings.


  • You are allowed to actually want to feel better, you know that right?

    Doing things that feel good will be weird at first, you’ve been punishing yourself for a long time, but breaking out of this self flagellation ritual you’ve built around your life will be worth it, if you can let yourself.

    Let’s try some other what if’s.

    What if safe sex in a professional environment, with no emotional strings attached to hurt you with, actually makes you feel better?

    What if practicing talking to women in a safe way like this, actually gives you the confidence to talk to other women?

    What if you find a sex worker you click with and maybe you see her once or twice a month over the course of a year, and in that time you get comfortable with interacting with women and with sex and you not only learn how to be good in bed, but also how not to hate yourself?

    If you don’t try, you’ll never know.






  • Sex workers deserve to be spoken about politely and treated respectfully. Work is work.

    But yeah, this awful man has a point, OP you need to get laid.

    If sex work is legal where you live, find a brothel and see if any of the women there look interesting, book an hour and see where it leads. Once you’ve actually interacted with a woman and are on your way to figuring yourself out sexually, you’re going to start feeling a lot better about yourself OP.

    Just talking and cuddling isn’t shameful either though, a lot of us (hi, I’m a former sex worker) had at least few bookings a week like that every week, we give good cuddles and are often great listeners. And if you just want to party and blow off steam that way, most girls can probably hook you up, and we’re also usually a lot of fun to get high with too.

    Seeing a sex worker like buying a single serving friend with benefits, who’s up for safe sex and very likely also fantastic lay if you play your cards right. Think of it like therapy and entertainment and practice for the real thing, all rolled into one.