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  • watty@lemm.eetoAsklemmy@lemmy.ml*Permanently Deleted*
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    22 days ago

    Even a minimally featured bidet will at least soften things up and make wiping more effective.

    I used a tushy bidet to start, which is pretty cheap and easy to get going and get comfortable with it. I would recommend the warm water options, but you need to have a sink nearby to steal the warm water from. Fancier warm water bidets have an instant water heater, so you don’t need a hot water tap, just power.

    I have since upgraded to one with all the features, and here’s how my process typically goes:

    1. Sit down on heated seat
    2. Push out what I can
    3. Using the remote, turn on low pressure heated water with pulsating mode. I can also move the spray back/forth with the remote to get everything.
    4. Switch to high pressure for a moment. That has enough pressure to get up in there a bit, which seems to lubricate/soften any parts that didn’t come out through sheer effort earlier.
    5. Pause, push out one more time
    6. Go back to low pressure to tidy up
    7. Turn on blow dryer for a bit, or dry off with TP if I’m in a hurry.



  • Someone mentioned the last mile problem, and someone else responded as if it doesn’t exist based purely on their own situation (right now). I’m pointing out that it does exist with my situation as an example (right now).

    That’s all. Should we pretend like there’s no last mile problem?

    Maybe in some ideal world, the last mile problem could be solved purely with public transit. We don’t live in that world. Investing as of we live in an ideal world is foolish.

    If one approach is effective for more people, that’s great, but shouldn’t we also invest in solutions that fill the gap?


  • Here’s a summary of this thread:

    Guy 1 - why is anyone doing waymo when there’s public transit

    Guy 2 - last mile problem

    Guy 3 - it works great for me in the city surrounded by bus stops, no last mile problem

    Me - it doesn’t work great for me barely outside the city. (My point being that it’ll take a lot to get public transit to within 1 mile of where I am, let alone to someone even further from the city)

    You - that’s your own fault so stop complaining

    Me - so fuck me and everyone farther out than me apparently.

    That’s how we got here. I simply stated my situation as it relates to public transit, and you tell me it’s just my own fault and I should shut up.

    We have a long way to go to get ubiquitous public transit in America. I doubt we will ever get there. It makes sense to consider other options as well.

    I’m saying we should go to the moon AND develop nuclear fusion.

    You want to know what’s harmful to discussion? Pricks like you telling people that their opinion is irrelevant.




  • The person you are replying to is talking about pink sky being built on bluesky, and you equate that to Lemmy being based on Reddit. One is a hard technical dependency, and the other is a conceptual inspiration.

    You are engaging in an equivocation fallacy, and I think you know that. You even try to sneak it in by switching to a different but similar word (built->based) with a different meaning, then you switched back again to “built” while using the term in the same way you used “based”, then you start using other phrasing to obscure it even more. You are gaslighting with word games to try and get people to not notice your fallacy. It’s super dishonest.