It definitely does! I misremembered, thought that you can manually select from a list of tapes. Thanks, will edit the parent comment.

I thought about it when compiling my reply, but I can’t recommend it under “calm” requirement. The number of times I yelled at the game for giving me Time Eater when I’m playing a Shiv deck…

I didn’t test most of these personally on a touch screen, but they seem like good candidates to check:

• Pawnbarian
• Osmos
• Hexcells (+ Hexcells Plus + Hexcells Infinite)
• Frog Detective (+ 2 + 3)
• The Witness
• Taiji
• shapez
• Her Story sorry, it needs a keyboard
• Eufloria
• KAMI
• Hook (+ 2)
• The Pedestrian
• Subsurface Circular
• Dorfromantik
• Polychromia
• Hidden Folks
• Cogs

I personally use two pairs that satisfy most of your criteria:

• Jabra Elite 85t. You switch between ANC/passthrough by double-clicking the right bud; it doesn’t need the app to do that. However, if your 12 h requirement is about consecutive hours, they won’t work (buds last about 5 h, plus 20 h from the case). They’re pretty compact and the case is magnetic, which I really like (coming from 65t model).
• Sony WH1000XM5. Insanely good ANC and nice battery life. There’s a physical button on the left cup to toggle between modes, which I believe are set to ANC/passthrough by default. The app lets you add a third mode (off), so you don’t need it at all.

I had a similar approach about headphones as you had - I only planned to use them for work, specifically Teams meetings in a loud office. But XM5s have such great ANC and sound quality that I now commute and travel with them.

For gaming, I’m using HyperX Cloud Alpha Wireless. They have an unbelievable 300 hours battery life and decent passive noise canceling, though no ANC. They’re using a proprietary wireless connection, making them fit for gaming without noticeable lags (Bluetooth sucks in this regard, I can’t play with 300 ms audio delay). Not sure if you can connect them to a phone.