I just feel bad watching nsfw videos and im not sure if its normal and sometimes they make me feel sick watching. IM 19 is it normal to have become curious about nsfw stuff? it just annoyed me and im not sure if is should change, i would like to replace my “addiction” with something normal or healthy. if your wondering i come from religious bloodline but dont really adapt to church and such.

What would you advise?

  • Balerion@piefed.blahaj.zone
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    1 month ago

    There’s nothing inherently wrong with watching someone be degraded either, as long as you understand that porn is fantasy, the people in the video are acting, and you should never do anything like that IRL without consent.

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      1 month ago

      Intellectually, I agree with you, but personally I feel that we can get jaded to things. Maybe just for me, personally, but I worry that if I watched a lot of porn with someone being degraded, degradation would have less impact on me, and I don’t want that to happen. Another aspect, though, is that watching someone being degraded makes me feel shitty, not horny.

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        1 month ago

        Eh. We know violent video games don’t cause violence, so I see no reason to assume porn works any differently. Fair enough if that’s not your thing, though.

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          1 month ago

          I think becoming desensitized to something and becoming motivated to do it are different. I’m not worried that watching degradation porn will make me want to degrade people, but I’m worried it will make it have less of an impact on me.