(Saw this on another post)

So I am 14, (and have seen some teens on this community) and my girlfriend is 17. I think this is ok but it could not be the case.

  • Today@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    When she graduates, she will likely look towards others who are closer to her age. Heartbreak sucks. IMO, better to back off on the romance in this situation.

  • blarghly@lemmy.world
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    4 days ago

    Are you not having a good time? Does she tell you/make you do things you don’t want to do? Does she scream at you or try to coerce you when she is angry?

    If yes, problem. If no, no problem.

  • mrcleanup@lemmy.world
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    4 days ago

    Think of how much you grew up between 11 and 14. It’s even more pronounced between 14 and 17.

    This is not a good idea, whether it feels good or not.

    Besides, in a year if you kiss, she’s a pedo. If it will suddenly not be ok then, it’s probably not ok now.