Even with a good career and all the “adult milestones” I don’t feel like an actual adult. I feel like I’m pretending to know what I’m doing. Anyone else experience this?

  • Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world
    361·
    1 年前

    41 and a total of 5 children (some step) here. Still not sure what I want to be when I grow up.

    • Wogi@lemmy.world
      16·
      1 年前

      Hey, I felt like this when I had a job that I hated. I was constantly trying to figure out what I was going to do next, as if I hadn’t actually started life yet.

      I was 36 when I just up and quit my job and went to trade school.

      Best thing I’ve ever done. In the last 5 years I met, and married my wife, bought a big new house with her, and have actually felt like the adult I am. None of that would have happened if I never took a plunge.