• Mickey7@lemmy.worldOP
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    16 days ago

    Had a girlfriend that was super into fucking but she just could not ever bring herself to use crude words or phrases. It was always “do you want to have sex?” She would never be able to say, “do you want to fuck?”

    Then during a fuck session we were in missionary and she was cumming, she screamed out, “Yes, Yes, fuck my pussy good!” I was shocked.

    When we both were in post sex mental clarity she seemed bothered by something. And she told me how embarrassed she was for shouting out. I tried to make her understand that whenever she talked “dirty” it got me incredible hot to fuck her.

    • HeyJoe@lemmynsfw.com
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      16 days ago

      I’ve been married over a decade, and my wife is still that way. Super embarrassed by things she’s not used to. We have come a long way from dating. I always encourage to be vocal, and I try my hardest to say at least a few really dirty things because even though she won’t say it outright I can absolutely tell she is super into it and loves it. Whenever she does say something I ask her to say it again, and it also helps her get more into it. Either way I love it more because I know it’s hard for her to do, so getting her to do it means it’s really good!