• dont_lemmee_down@lemm.ee
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    9 days ago

    If you’re with Dan (they/them) and Dan (he/him), you would also have the problem when saying

    “I was with Dan and Dan the other day. Dan hadn’t brought the poster, so Dan went back to the car to get it.”

    So to avoud confusion, people should not be allowed to be called Dan anymore. In fact everyone gets a UUID so there is no more confusion.

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      9 days ago

      you would also have the problem when saying …

      You would have a problem but it would not be the same problem as in my example. The problem here is not because of the choice of pronoun.

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        8 days ago

        Well it kinda is. Pronouns are like names, in the sense that we use them to describe to whom we refer.

        They are a non injective function on the name set.

        The restriction you would like to make is that the function is not multivalued. But it is. As an example, Andrea is a name that is usually associated with a female person, but it is a normal name for male people in Italy.

        We allowed people to be named whatever they wanted (or their parents wanted), so why not also let them choose whatever pronoun they prefer?

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          8 days ago

          Well it kinda is.

          I disagree.

          Pronouns are like names

          Pronouns are not names.

          allowed

          That’s the second time you’ve used the word “allow”. That’s very telling.

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            7 days ago

            I disagree.

            I disagree.

            Pronouns are not names.

            Yes, that is why I wrote “like”. They serve the same functionality.

            second

            That is the first time you wrote second. That’s very telling.