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  • JJM@lemmynsfw.com
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    3 days ago

    It varies wildly based on the situation and run up to it, but probably on average around 30-40 seconds Female

  • copymyjalopy@sh.itjust.works
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    4 days ago

    The most disappointing: 5 seconds. These usually just sneak up on me during sex and aren’t super pleasurable or fulfilling. Usually when I’m multitasking (sucking nipple, rubbing clit, supporting body on other hand)

    The best: 20ish seconds. Long pleasurable buildup, ejaculations and muscle contractions are less sharp. Usually also comes with a lot of cum too. Brain ceases to function for a good minute or so as well.

    I’m male if that isn’t obvious.

  • Salon9126@lemmynsfw.com
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    3 days ago

    10-20 seconds if I’m just cumming

    If I cum while being fucked in the ass, I suppose it’s not technically an orgasm, but I feel a glow/tingle/warmth from my head to my toes that lasts about 8 hours.

    (Male)

  • Mickey7@lemmy.world
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    4 days ago

    I’d say 20 seconds. What follows is usually 2 or 3 minutes of a cloudly brain untill you finally reach post nut clarity

    • NowIneedToMasturbateThanks@lemmynsfw.comOP
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      4 days ago

      Because sometime like seven(ish) years ago (I don’t remember exactly), I was hanging out with a totally platonic female friend of mine; and we were already talking (completely matter of fact) about categorically anything sexual, and already asking each other similar questions; and I asked her that, and she said she couldn’t really tell me that offhand because she’d never really thought about it; and I said okay, and then she just never got back to me (about that specifically), even though we’re still friends and we still talk (she probably just forgot I ever asked her that, which is understandable); and even though we’d already talked about other things that are at least as personal before I asked her that, I would still feel somewhat awkward bringing it up again the better part of a decade later, for some reason.

      I also feel like it’s somewhat of a normal question.

      Especially here.

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        4 days ago

        Your comment made me immediately think of “well let’s try it now and time it”

      • hendrik@palaver.p3x.de
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        4 days ago

        Fair enough. I thought this was some Reddit re-post or something. I mean that information is easy to google…

        But I’d agree. It’s really hard to concentrate in that moment and do a good job in tracking time. I don’t know my exact time either. I’d say it’s about 10 seconds? Could as well be 5 or 15, I don’t really know. Supposedly it’s longer for women? But I guess that varies a lot from person to person. And maybe also with the exact situation.