Do you have a price point as to how much you would cost? (Not looking for hookups BTW)

  • Asafum@feddit.nl
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    2 days ago

    Idk, I wouldn’t see it as changing my sexuality I would see it more like that show fear factor. I’m dealing with something I consider really disgusting to have… Idk how much. I guess a million? Lol I’d want enough to be able to live off the interest.

    • Noel_Skum@sh.itjust.works
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      2 days ago

      That’s fair enough - people can see things differently; the whole rich tapestry of humanity and all that…

      To me though this question reads a lot like: Atheists, how much money would it take for you to believe in a god? or: Normal well adjusted people how much money would it take for you to hate someone based purely on their choice of a same sex partner, or skin colour etc?

      Best of luck finding that million euro blowjob - and I also hope you’d find something new and liberating about yourself in that process.

      • Khanzarate@lemmynsfw.com
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        2 days ago

        See this is different.

        It’s more like, “atheists, how much money would it take for you to go to church regularly?”

        You can’t actually buy a belief, and unlike both of your examples, I dont have to lie about myself or espouse values I don’t have. They didn’t ask me “how much money to lie and come out as gay” after all, just how much to suck a dick.

        And as a straight atheist, I could give up Sunday mornings for money, even if it was boring or stressful, and I could suck a dick, although that sounds like all kinds of unpleasant. Wouldn’t make me anything but a straight atheist with a bunch of money, because my Sundays are valuable, and so is my dick-sucking virginity.

        About 50k feels right. I’m not worth any less, even though it definitely wouldn’t be worth it to anyone who’d wanna pay.

        • Noel_Skum@sh.itjust.works
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          2 days ago

          Look, honestly, varied opinions are amazing. I believe there’s a term, gay-for-pay, used in porn for otherwise straight men who fellate men.

          Personally I’d go as far as to say a male-female-male threesome is kinda gay, but with extra steps. But for some people that’s their thing. More power to them. Not my thing though. Seeing my mate grinning back at me during sexy time is the stuff of nightmares to me.

          $50,000? Would that, uh, have to be a onetime upfront payment?

          • Khanzarate@lemmynsfw.com
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            1 day ago

            Upfront for sure.

            Like, i have the kneejerk reaction that a lot of guys have, to set a price as “millions” or whatever, but realistically, I could improve my life so much with 50,000$. So, hypothetically, I could improve my life so much with some gay benefactor who was willing to pay 50,000 for a blowjob from me. I could get rid of some debt, move to a better country, etc. 50,000 is on the lower end, but if some dude offered 50,000, I’d really have to consider it.

            I’m also in a relationship, and naturally she would have to also be OK with it. Maybe she would, maybe shed demand more, maybe she wouldn’t, but im just ignoring that for the moment. I’d have to take her feelings into account, but these are just my feelings, in this thread.

            • Noel_Skum@sh.itjust.works
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              1 day ago

              All jokes aside but I’m super impressed you’ve given your girlfriend’s feelings some thought regarding this…

              I hope you get a financial boost one way or another; but preferably not by performing sexual tasks that you wouldn’t do for free.

              • Khanzarate@lemmynsfw.com
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                4 minutes ago

                Well hey the whole point of the price is that’s what I’d be happy with.

                Some people seem to speak like they couldn’t sleep at night, knowing they’d done a gay sexual act of some sort. And maybe, they wouldn’t be able to. But I could, as long as there weren’t deeper repercussions like my relationship falling apart because I lied about it.

                I’d sleep fine.

                Maybe in another life I’d just be a career prostitute, maybe i handle that better or whatever, but in this life I’ll have to settle for software engineer. Don’t have the body for it.