So now that we’ve established how many of you would suck a dick for your specified price, how many of you would let another man suck your cock? Would you let him do it for free or would you charge for it? Would you let him do it for free but only under certain conditions? Lemmy know what you think! 😉 (FYI not looking for hookups)
It’s not straight. Those men are closeted bisexual.
What if they’re only interested in receiving oral from other men but nothing else? That’s not exactly bisexual
How is it not bisexual?
Lack of attraction.
That’s where I’d draw the line in sand.
I find labelling of sexual preferences a bit tedious. Having labels can be handy when they serve as a shorthand, but sexual preferences have all kind of identity-building connotations.
So, personally I think someone who identifies as a man is attracted to other men for any kind of sex, that’s gay. Having preferences for what particular kind of sex doesn’t change that.
I know a lot of people don’t feel that way. For a lot of cultures and people what makes it gay is a man being poked with a dick, whether that’s in your mouth or ass. That’s why when they are trying to figure out risk for diseases they ask if you’ve had sex with a man, not if you’re gay.
Thats an extremely binary view, and sexuality doesnt work like that, its a spectrum.
Now I would say they are not straight, but it does not make them now explicitly gay.
Sorry I should have just deleted that rambling text before posting, but oh well.
To be clear when mention gay there I just mean sexual attraction to the same sex, independent of any attraction or not to the other sex (or non-binary people or whatever).