idk we don’t really plan much when it comes to sex aside from when it involves other people.
we just fuck if we want to fuck, we fap if we want to fap. we usually tell each other and sometimes we do it together or have sex instead. we just had a month of having sex almost every single day so it isnt as much of a special event as you make it put to be.
But if we plan something I might bring toys etc.
Twice and both happened during my uni time.
One was after a new years party at a friend of a friend’s place who I didn’t know prior. It was late and I was about to leave with my buddy when his girlfriend arranged with the host for me to crash on her couch instead. It was easier for me that way so I agreed. Later I learned my bud and gf wanted to have sex and she wanted me gone haha. The host gives me a blanket and pillow and I prepare to sleep wearing only my boxer briefs. We got along super well all night before but since I knew she just left a long term relationship, I did not make any moves. She comes over in her pajamas.
her: are you tired yet?
me: no I had too much coke.
her: same. … you know what usually helps me fall asleep?
me: what?
her: a good orgasm.
me: he, uhm, same.
her: well then undresses
We slept well afterwards. I later learned this was also part of the plan of my buddies gf. It did stay a one night stand however.
The other was during a party at our flatshare. We were 6 flatmates and during a party we would always lock one room to store clothes, backpacks and valuable stuff. The parties could get pretty big so it was safer for everyone.
When it was my turn to have my room as locker, a girl I met a few days back followed my invite to the party. We went into my room, I took her jacket. She wore a stunning short dress under it, and clearly no bra. I must have stared noticeably but quickly went to put the jacket away. I here the door being locked and turn around to find her dress and panties on the ground next to her.
She later said my look at her in that dress gave her the confidence to pull that move. We dated for a few weeks but did not get together.
A while ago I promised a bit of a writeup on our nonstop nut November as a couple.
My partner and I (f27 and m29, together almost 3y in a semi-open kinky relationship) did a “nonstop nut November”. We wanted to have sex every single day of the month. Oral counts as long as it goes both ways, as does other types of play as long as we both have an orgasm.
First we started of excited and enthusiastic. On the first to fifth day we fucked each day in the evening before bedtime. We do some mild BDSM, cum play and lots of oral as we enjoy that, amd titty fucking which I love. But all of that is pretty much our usual sex but more frequent. Usually we have sex about 2 to sometimes 5 times a week, probably 3 on average. It was nice and we were off to a great start.
On day six to ten we kind of lost steam a bit. We did oral only one day and one day of masturbating together with porn and toys. Both were a bit unenthusiastic. So we talked and decided to do some more unusual stuff the next days to keep it spicy and exciting. One day I fucked her ass and she did some very mild pegging on me. Both of which we both enjoy but the preparationa and duration of the whole thing often just does not work out. This time it really envigorated us. I got some more bondage toys and installed a swing in the bedroom, we used that and blind folds and cuffs a lot the coming days. It’s a great addition to our routines.
once over the half-way mark we got kinkier as we went. My partner has a major cum fetish, loves to play with it, rub it on her everywhere, swallow it and so on. So we did more edging together because my loads become noticably bigger when I take a lot of time. She also found she enjoys edging and teasing me as well as being teased at the brink of an orgasm. It’s great.
One day she had a day off work while I was away til late afternoon. She told me she was masturbating and edging all day and sent me pics over the course of the day. She wrote she will wait for me to fuck her to cum on my dick. When I finally got home I was so horny as well. When I penetrated her she came hard almost instantly. That was an amazing experience to put my dick in and feel the shaking, convulsions and contracting motions of her body and pussy. Holy crap. She then let me fuck her a bit more but evetually her pussy was done from the long day. She finished my off with a blow and tit job.
It was a few days until she was out for a Saturday shopping with a friend when I was able to return the favor. After essentially gooning (sober) and edging for around 4h, sending her some texts as well, when she came home I got so excited it was hard not to cum on the sport. She undressed and went to her knees. When she put my dick into her mouth I pretty much blew my load right then. She made sure to put some cum on her tits and suck some out of my dick hard to swallow it. I almost felt like I was about to faint. We got her to cum with some toys because I was absolutely out of order.
The next days her period came around and we had some days of toy play, oral and anal. The days after we invited a couple over who we sometimes do foursome sessions with. We do a bit of partner swapping but mostly keep to ourselves as couples. It was a very nice change of pace though to be able to experience someone else after 20+ days straight of fucking my partner. Even though we tried to be creative about it and often try new things. This really confirmed our decision for the open relationship to us both. She felt the same way about fucking someone else for a change.
We then tried collecting my cum over a few days as my partner got really into the whole cum play thing. We put it into a glass in the fridge. My excitement to cum into a glass was pretty low tbh. But after like 3 times I fucked her while she rubbed it all over her tits and face and licked it off my dick and all kinds of kinky shit she enjoys. That was kind of worth it but not my jam except when we use it as lube for titfucks. We decided I’ll try to freeze it from after I fap instead of after sex. That way my fapping cum isnt wasted. Smart ;)
Talking about fapping. We both still masturbated a bit but not nearly as much during November. I usually fap around 1-2 times a week. During november it was maybe 3 times total, not counting the one where I came in my partners mouth. But even with very little fapping I noticed that it started to take me way longer to reach an orgasm. Instead of holding off trying not to cum too soon I began to try to just cum. With the really kinky stuff it wasnt as noticeable. And our sex got quite exotic during the final week. But we tried one more vanilla fuck on the 26th on a Sunday morning. It was a marathon fuck. We took a breakfast break because we got hungry during sex lol. And a few more short ones because we were a bit exhausted and for drinks. Much lube was used that day and we both got kind of stubborn and wanted to see if we could both cum from vanilla penis in vagina sex. I managed to do it after absolutely slamming her pussy doggystyle for what felt like an eternity. She was propped up on a pile of pillows so she could just lay there during my hammering away. She said now she knows what a fuckdoll feels like. For her to cum we got toys involved. But our orgasms were extremely intense.
For the last day we decided to go out with a bang. So we went to the swinger club. We haven’t been in several months but kind of wanted to see what would happen.
But overall we felt very in tune with each others sexual desires and needs, more than ever before. At the same time we felt a bit like we had too much of the same. There is a thing such as too much of your favorite ice cream.
Maybe that is why during the swinger club visit we did not have sex with each other at all. We always stayed in the same room (one of the agreements of our open relationship - no sex with others without the partner present) but did almost not touch each other. Whenever I came I blew my load on her as we always do. But other than that we enjoyed being able to experience someone else’s very different desires and movements and body shapes. It was a great way to end this month.
Overall I think it brought us together more, we explored lots of kinks and reaffirmed our relationship model. And we finally got a swing now.