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Cake day: February 7th, 2025

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  • I tried Reddit for a bit but it got so annoying having to do a new verification every time you want to post to a new sub, and half the time the mods never even respond, and a decent chunk of the ones that did respond were assholes. I also had to deal with getting banned and appealing over annoying stuff (both from Reddit and subs)

    It’s not like I do it for money so all that hassle didn’t feel worth it and I don’t need to “optimize” my engagement, so I decided to look around for a more chill option and found Lemmy.










  • I’ve done some exhibitionist related stuff other than posting online. We go to nude beaches sometimes, I do some flashing when we go on hikes or rarely sometimes even in public, I wear skimpy bikinis (thongs/really cheeky bottoms, slightly sheer stuff) sometimes when we go swimming, and I dress pretty sexy when we go out to the bar (short skirts, short tight dresses, short shorts, etc)

    We’ve considered monetizing before but we generally don’t think it’d be fun to have the pressure of consistently putting content out. It might still be something we explore in the future, but we both have steady, good incomes so we don’t feel the financial pressure that some others might. So we’d probably only do it if we decide we can keep it fun.


  • It really just excites me to take pictures and send them to him. I definitely don’t spend much time dolling up, and my bf doesn’t ask me to either, so that helps. I usually just pick a piece of lingerie quick, do a quick flash, strip down, or do a bit of a tease and then not much more than that. For posting, my bf is really turned on by showing me off so it’s exciting for both of us. I don’t know if I can give much more advice since I think it’s going to vary from person to person, but I’d say try to encourage her to do more candid stuff or light teases at first so she doesn’t feel like she needs to doll up so much. Basically have her do more “low effort” stuff and then see how it goes from there.