The prompt seems to come from a really rushed place. There’s “throughout… year” contrasted against “will take years” and then you have “want to get to know” contrasted against “threesome, perhaps foursome.” Like, it’s comedy. You’re not getting to know a person inside of two hours, unless it’s specifically in the most limited of biblical sense of knowing. Ask anyone in a long term relationship and it takes months to really know a person, and sexually? Even if you’re the most open of people it’s going to be nearly as long to learn how a person ‘ticks.’

In. In porn and life, I find the outside to be a complete turn off. It not only feels better to finish inside, it’s so much better to feel the other twitching inside.

So, like, they’ll want to lay their ear against your chest? I can see the endearing nature of that, considering how many passionate encounters begin or end in that position.