Not, but I do try to find things that are flattering, and often don’t bra anymore except for work. Jeans & a sweater or jeans and a t-shirt, depending on the season. Sometimes yoga pants, husband finds those sexy, and for some reason also he loves the wide leg pants.
What? That is a very good outfit on a man. Roll up those sleeves!
No, as a mom I gotta say first, that would be creepy as fuck. And second, even high school girls are not usually into high school boys, adult women even less so.
Absolutely not my thing.
That is what Viagra is for, no? We fuck every morning regardless of plans, but husband will take a Viagra (not that brand , I think it’s the Cialis technically) a few hours ahead if he knows we will be out drinking and dancing or whatever and will want to have sex afterwards.
Overall, more makes more for us, there is no fasting from sex, it doesn’t make it better for either of us.
I am old enough to remember when shaving all over was a fetish thing. But having been smooth, woah I like it so much better. I got ingrown hairs more leaving it natural, and it was itchier, but my natural hair is quite coarse and curly.
The skin biome isn’t weak enough to be lost by cutting off the hair, though, right? I’ve shaved my underarms since forever ago and no problems there, and plenty of men are bald or shave their face.
Assuming it’s your preference to be smooth, not just doing it for someone else:
If any salon in your town does manscaping body waxing, waxing is the smoothest growback, and over time the hair gets a little softer and sparser. Nair seems like a terrible idea in such a sensitive area. Professional waxing hurts but over quick, lasts 4-6 weeks, and they are under health department rules.
If you are just doing this for someone else:
As a giver -of-blowjobs, I do very much appreciate trimmed short at least, and trimmed short is enough. Run the trimmer or razor last pass in the direction of hair growth so it’s not so rough on your partners’ tender skin.
Sorry about the yeast, yuck. That sucks.
Of course we do, it’s nothing to do with jealousy, just expedient. Already in there, would you get out of the shower and pee in the toilet? That seems silly.
There are plenty of things I can’t do anymore, but I was shocked at how hot it was to do some of the things I thought I wouldn’t like in real life.
I think masochism is the line where it’s the most different - I like some pain IRL but it can quickly cross to where it’s unsexy or only hot because I am doing it for the sadist, like as a submissive thing it’s satisfying but the literal pain is just painful beyond what is gonna make the high or the arousal. In fantasy, where obviously I’m not hurting, that line is farther away, though it still exists.
You do need good communication and an enthusiastic partner to do any sort of threesome, I think it’s fun (MFM), was better in real life than I’d imagined it would be.
CNC I have written about here, that is different in real life but not worse. I think because in your mind the other person is undefined, right? More like stuff being done to you. But in real life it’s a real person with their own desires, they are driving, you are on their ride.
If I’m thinking, something is wrong. Just feeling, not thinking.
Sounds like an ideal outcome, that’s good to hear.
Yes. Yes they are. With boots.