this sounds a lot like my sister. now, she is 14, but I’m not calling you immature. I mean that it sounds very similar to her and she has borderline traits but she is also autistic and I heard that her case can’t be diagnosed until she’s an adult, but it does sound like her.

reading a message and not replying

Idk what others will say, but imo no. From my experience, someone who leaves you on read is either busy a lot, doesn’t wanna talk, or hates you. If it’s the latter, he didn’t wanna date you or be your friend anyway.

I can say that I don’t remember my girlfriend ever leaving me on read. If she did, she was busy, and she would respond as soon as she could.

update: she says she loves me no matter what

Thank you. I will tell my lesbian gf about my “Oliver” identity. maybe it will take some time to get used to it or she’ll break up with me, but it should be fine if we’re meant to be. I’m sure we are ❤️ we’ve already been together for two years