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Yes, 100% this. Debian stable, no GUI for servers. Never have a problem.

Yes, I’m very proud of the Reddit community for several times over the years mass-recommending open source and federated options.

Burn it to the ground! I wish all top subreddits had the balls to go dark indefinitely to the point they have to backpedal or forcibly take over the subreddits. Burn it to the fucking ground!