• Dave@lemmy.nz
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    13 days ago

    This was also my experience during the main sweep of the pandemic. It was so great getting to cut the commute and be home. Something I have luckily managed to largely continue. Prior to the pandemic my kid was in daycare pretty much 7:30-5:30 so it was really nice to not have to do that, plus during our lockdown we used to go for a family walk at lunchtime.

    While some of the single guys I worked with hated staying home and were straight back in the office the moment they were allowed.

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      13 days ago

      Yeah I went 3 months without having a single face to face conversation with someone, it was pretty shit even with online gaming and discord.

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          13 days ago

          Pretty much. It’s feels like someone complaining that they won the lottery.

            • Ledericas@lemm.ee
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              12 days ago

              the reasons they give are often super selfish, it was asked on many subs over the pandemic, they want to interact with said co-workers even if its unproductive and said coworkers do not want to make chit chat with said male workers.

            • n0face@lemmy.wtf
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              11 days ago

              Good, then go socialize.

              The issue is that people that want socialization complain that those who enjoy solitude don’t want to socialize with them, so those that prefer solitude should be forced into the office instead.

              It’s a really odd thing. Stop relying on work to satisfy your socialization needs. Try a hobby instead. Anything should do - Magic the Gathering, Warhammer 40k, Tabletop RPG, sports, dance classes, anything.

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        13 days ago

        During the pandemic my partner stayed inside for about a month, I was the only person she interacted with. I kept going to work because I was an “essential” worker (not really), so I kinda envied her, but by the end of that month she was going a bit crazy.

    • Atonable8938@lemmy.zip
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      12 days ago

      I think it’s funny that I had the opposite experience. My coworkers who had kids couldn’t wait to get back to the office, while the few of us youngsters who didn’t wanted nothing but to keep working remotely. Probably why those few of us left immediately when it became clear they were going to force everyone back.

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        12 days ago

        probably because they dont want to deal with thier kids 24/7, screaming,c rying,etc.