If you don’t like something, you don’t do it, simple as that. And forcing or coercing someone with the “but I (would) do it for you !” is just manipulative and toxic.

I fucking love anything that has to do with anal, my wife is a bit less into it. So yes, she’ll kiss me after rimming my ass, but she won’t just after i lick hers, and this is just how it is if that’s how she prefers it !