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Cake day: July 6th, 2023

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  • As with several things are, I think it’s a fetish that used to be more niche before mainstream porn. It’s a very simple and visual thing that they could do to cater to the audience that liked it, and that the rest would just ignore. As time went on, porn participated in shaping perceptions of what sex is, and cumplay grew in popularity.

    As a personal opinion, I love cumplay, for example watching and playing with it after creampies, my wife is not as much into it. Like other fetish, there’a semirandom distribution in the population


  • Our two cents as sharers but not sellers : professionnal sex content creation is a somewhat risky and overly saturated market. Crudely put, people who want to watch porn can do it just about everywhere on the web, most often for free. Unless you cater to a very specific niche of fetish(es), and even then it can be hard due to the huge and evergrowing number of people with the same ideas you got.

    As others said, identity protection is paramount, however things like blurring/cutting your face will diminish your reach. Most OF models that do thrive do it through an active engagement with their community, which again implies potential sharing of personnal information.

    We’re not saying you shouldn’t try, if only to satisfy your curiosity, but be very aware of the risks, the ways to mitigate them, and the overwhelming probability that this will not amount to a livable income soon, or possibly ever. But, keep doing what you want and what you like as safely as you can !







  • We’ll join in on the chorus, this is a very much average size. Porn fucks us up much more than we’d all like, and skews expectations. However, in reality, really big dicks can hurt a lot, and only a fraction of people are actually wanting that. No matter your size (and we mean it), what’s important is how you care for a partner, using your entire body to please theirs. Sex is a wonderfully thing, and it’s about the mental and physically connections you build. Wanting the other to get the most pleasure is actually what often gets you the most in return :)

    Edited to add : if you want to boost your confidence somewhat, two things that can make your dick look a bit bigger is losing weight, and trimming/shaving the pubic har at the basis of the shaft









  • For toys, we would recommend getting a womanizer (or other brand equivalent). Almost every woman we talk sex with is in agreement that it’s a very unique, incredible feeling, and we use it very often in our sex sessions as a couple.

    As other have said, an assortment of buttplugs is a good thing, being able to go up in size as the play ramps up, and it works for anyone any gender.

    We also recommend something like the “HER ultimate pleasure”, meaning a toy with a suction cup for the vulva, and a moving tongue-like part. There are similar ones for other brands, we can vouch for the effectiveness of this particular one.

    And finally, if you’re into it, some restraints are always good, you can start very simple with 2 cuff pairs, and add some bed restraints, or even spreader bars.

    We hope this helps and you have a wonderful time together!