Guys, if you were getting hot and heavy with your partner, and they brought up the topic of pegging, and told you they already bought a strap-on and wanted to use it on you, what would you say?
Guys, if you were getting hot and heavy with your partner, and they brought up the topic of pegging, and told you they already bought a strap-on and wanted to use it on you, what would you say?
I accept that explanation. I was worried that the use of specific terms might offend in some cases, like referring to anal strapon use among lesbians as “pegging”, since the power inversion does not apply there, or at worst implying that non-heterosexuality is a situational substitute for “real” traditional heterosexual sex, which was the toxic discourse in my high school.
There are so many different ways one can look at something like this… if you’re worried about potentially offending someone with some perceived but not actually stated implication.
My advice? My view?
Relax, loosen up a bit.
=P
No but seriously, if you try to design a vocabulary around never possibly being offensive to anyone ever, you will fail, guaranteed.