Guys, if you were getting hot and heavy with your partner, and they brought up the topic of pegging, and told you they already bought a strap-on and wanted to use it on you, what would you say?
Guys, if you were getting hot and heavy with your partner, and they brought up the topic of pegging, and told you they already bought a strap-on and wanted to use it on you, what would you say?
Straight guy here. My then-girlfriend brought it up with me one day, and I was a yes, definitely, but let’s go slow. She went slow, and I guided her about what felt good and what didn’t feel good (up, OK, now down, OK, right there!), and the orgasms were so good (even better than PIV, as good as those were) that I felt great for days afterwards. It helps to have a partner who communicates clearly and who hears you to know to go slow and when to go fast. We couldn’t get the positions right where she would fuck me with a harness (though she was so beautiful with that rubber cock between her legs)., so she would use her hands and a toy bought just for me. She also gave me oral pleasure as well, with a dental dam. I knew she thought I was beautiful when I came that way, and that was what she got out of it.
I’m glad that we talked about it first not in the heat of the moment. If something went wrong in the heat of the moment, it could have turned me off from it. Talking about it first helped a lot.